Severe oneitis considering suicide, advice?

search_for_yourself · 2020-12-19T05:31:15+00:00

1-800-273-8255

None of us that haven’t been suicidal will be able to adequately respond to this post. I highly encourage you to call into this hotline.

I can say:

Life can be hard man, and I’m sorry. But we only get one. Don’t throw the towel in yet.

Wishing you peace and love brother, if you don’t feel it today, trust me that you will one day

_Marty07 · 2020-12-19T05:52:37+00:00

You should kill the old YOU and become the NEW you. The high value man, who is improving on himself everyday not giving a fuck. Once you realize how female nature works, you will not become needy and you will start to focus on other things that are important to YOU. Its worth living and learning, my brother. I wish you well and when you recover from this, you will become grateful for yourself.

djxcasanova · 2020-12-19T05:27:02+00:00

At the moment, it seems like the end of the world. But with each passing second, minute, hour and day, you feel better little by little. Sometimes it is two steps forward and one step back. Try to have an abundance mentality. There are other women out there. Don't drown in a cup of water.

Black_Bean00 · 2020-12-19T05:53:22+00:00

No bitch is ever worth losing your life over. I’ll tell you a real life story that happened to me.

Girl I talked and fucked around with a little in high school but didn’t date. She messaged me about a year later, saying she wished it had worked out with me because her boyfriend was being suicidal because they broke up, she’d called the cops and they couldn’t find him. He jumped off a bridge late that night. I was around with her the next day, and couple times over the next couple days. It only took us 6 or 7 days to fuck.

Do with that info what you will but that should tell you everything you need to know. Build yourself back up. Get in good shape, try to make that money, pursue things you love, and get out there. It’ll feel like you’re doing it on your own but it’ll be better than being dead over some bullshit.

iron_ee · 2020-12-19T05:27:18+00:00

Its a big decision. I made an attempt cuz of oneitis, note and everything. Fortunately it didnt work but give it 6 months and I think you will reconsider.

BenButton97 · 2020-12-19T05:36:51+00:00

Talk to the people you trust about this, but most of all: get professional help. It’s good you posted this. Took a lot of courage. Hang in there buddy!

vazeline200 · 2020-12-19T05:47:48+00:00

Please get help professional help OP. Therapy or the number someone has posted above. I don’t even think this is about her. I suspect that there are other issues you have going on in the background.

On a lighter note for the rest of you. This is what oneitis looks like to everyone outside of yourself. You pining after a woman whom for whatever reasons (scarcity, nothing else going on in your life etc) you’ve built up to be special in your mind but is objectively average (sometimes below par) at best.

anicebigrodforyou · 2020-12-19T06:01:56+00:00

Don’t do it. Bitches are a dime a dozen bro

ISCOREDwithISCO · 2020-12-19T07:17:08+00:00

I sent you a DM.

When I went through my break up, I actually felt like I was going to die. This was 2.5 years ago when I was a little beta bitch.

I have never been that depressed. I never had a girl reciprocate desire like that before, and I quickly got attached. I was in the complete dumps for like 8 months afterwards. The hardest days were the beginning, the first 3 months or so when she was posting about her new guy who she dumped me for and was with him within a week. I stopped viewing all her stories, her Instagram, everything. I tried focusing on school but I couldn’t because of this woman. All I can tell you is it will take some time, but BELIEVE ME there are SO much better women out there. Just the other day I almost slept with the most attractive woman I have ever been with in my life. I’m talking HB9. She of course started with the games so I’m not gonna contact her, but it goes to show you they’re everywhere. She is not one in a million, she is one of millions. Over time after the break up, I just found myself slowly and slowly getting better everyday until I became interested in other women again and started talking to them.

A number of women were throwing signs at me when I was going through my break up that they wanted me, and every time I basically rejected them because I was heartbroken. I would even tell these women about my break up and of course that dried up the pussy. My best advice is to just focus on yourself, because you will look back at this one day and think to yourself about all the time you wasted stressing over this one woman, and how you almost killed yourself over this mediocre fat woman who’s not even smart and doesn’t have anything going for her. As men, we dont even reach our primes until our 40’s. Most guys are having trouble getting women right now due to the pandemic, even my friend who’s known as the dog of the college who gets all sorts of pussy thrown at him barely has one woman he’s sleeping with right now and she just left town and won’t be back till January. Just know the pandemic will end and you will be able to go out and meet other women. For now, make sure you’re mentally healthy and working on what you need to do to level up. This woman does not care about you bro, and you getting with her would only be out of a scarcity mindset. Do better so you can move to a city with more women.

Always remember, women are not your life, they’re a happy addition to an already well lived life. Like Gucci Mane said, “Women are like buses; miss one, next 15 one’s comin”.

alex_de_tampa · 2020-12-19T05:33:06+00:00

So if you fell in love once , you could possibly fall in love again. I know it’s not easy to ask for help or call the suicide hotline. If you just wanna chat it up in more detail I’m willing to DM with you and lift your spirits. Nothing is permanent but emotions are powerful.

Use this downtime as a gestation period to improve and get better for when things open up so we can meet better women. Like I said I’m here.

daproest1 · 2020-12-19T08:06:07+00:00

You sound young. You’re suicidal over a fat chick. You can do better. You will do better.

Abadalta · 2020-12-19T07:34:32+00:00

I've been there. Don't ever off yourself over a girl. She'll just use it for pity clout and will be onto the next guy without hesitation. Your family needs you, they will be the ones to seriously suffer from this.

Your real problem is the lack of actual women. You are too isolated. You will be depressed until you can literally see the options you have with other women. Until you fix this, you will be depressed. Your job better be paying you "no pussy in the vicinity" money. Because anything they give you will be spent buying pussy back later.

Ask_For_Cock_Pics · 2020-12-19T07:43:01+00:00

jesus christ dude.

out of all the ways to kill yourself.....drowning? really?

from that information alone, i would guess the root of your problems is some sort of subconcious masachism. You don't need to be talking to us. Go see a therapist immediately.

Title	Severe oneitis considering suicide, advice?
Author	faker2030
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Date	December 19, 2020 5:14 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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