She’s hitting me up again.

redhorndog · 2020-05-14T12:33:44+00:00

If she didn’t fuck you the first time what makes you think this time will be any different?

She liked a few of your pictures so now all of a sudden that means she interested come on man. NEXT.

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-05-14T12:40:21+00:00

Beta bait.

Sometimes it pays not to be so direct to a LJBF rejection and just say “not interested in friendship, HMU if anything changes”.

So if she then hits you up, it’s framed better and makes more sense to try to escalate/meet.

Try to escalate/meet up but i wouldn’t hold your breath.

Most likely beta bait to make you an orbiter.

FudgingEgo · 2020-05-14T13:12:35+00:00

Probably lonely in lockdown or something? Just play it normal, feel free to reply in a casual non interested manor and leave her alone otherwise.

theunconquored · 2020-05-14T16:40:15+00:00

Have you increased your SMV significantly in the past 2 months? Been working out? Eating right? Being seen with chicks hotter than her?

If yes, she might want a ride.

If not, she's probably looking for attention.

Either way, you have nothing to lose. Tell her you're horny and ask if she wants to fool around. You'll find out how she sees you pretty quickly. You'll figure out where your SMV stands with her, and you'll maybe get your dick sucked.

If you lack the confidence to already know that you're high value, stop wasting your time and do some god damn pushups.

Domebeers · 2020-05-14T15:17:33+00:00

some times dead leads come back alive. Send her a ping, sure, but don't invest too heavily in an iffy lead.

spartan_samurai · 2020-05-14T15:26:10+00:00

She is missing all the attention you used to give to her.

If you already being friendzoned once then it's not going to change and you will waste your time.

Ghost her.

wowkwo · 2020-05-14T19:21:57+00:00

She's gauging to see if she can still control you.

Do not play her game.

rugged79 · 2020-05-14T21:07:32+00:00

Leave on read. She hasn't even DMed you. Probably trying to drive traffic to her social media for more likes.

I know some girls do it to indirectly get orbiters and very rarely get a dude to ask them on a date. But these are some bullshit tactics.

A woman will usually be very clear if she likes you, even more clear if she wants to fuck.

LIEX440 · 2020-05-15T05:12:12+00:00

The bitch wants ur attention

vandaalen · 2020-05-14T13:45:32+00:00

block her

le_wolfe · 2020-05-14T12:37:09+00:00

Just play it cool. Nothing else.

ViolentInteger · 2020-05-14T13:04:39+00:00

By soft-nexting, you signaled to her that you're higher SMV. Hence, she's now at least a little interested. If you game her properly, you can fuck her. If you don't, she'll try to make you her orbiter.

Keep ignoring her reactions on social media, but escalate the next time she reaches out to you directly. Either she's receptive to it, or she goes back on soft-next.

alfred311 · 2020-05-14T14:59:25+00:00

Why are you even in social media? I deleted my facebook account since rp

Title	She’s hitting me up again.
Author	throwawayletsgooo
Upvotes	7
Comments	31
Date	May 14, 2020 12:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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