Shit test? How to proceed?

bearbludaddy · 2020-03-28T19:41:11+00:00

If she doesn't give an alternative "make up" date then it's a shit test. In this case, I'd be fine with what she wrote.

Kidterrific · 2020-03-28T19:38:54+00:00

Do it tomorrow. What’s the big deal here?

pointster_VSK · 2020-03-29T03:34:13+00:00

Not a shit test but more of lack of attraction

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-03-28T19:33:31+00:00

You should have plans for tomorrow but if you don’t why not. Don’t get your hopes up

nexther · 2020-03-28T21:36:09+00:00

Accept and watch what she does.

OffGrubkiller · 2020-03-28T20:17:17+00:00

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Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2020-03-28T21:25:28+00:00

"Sure. I should be free after 7. Come over at 8."

Could be bullshit but since she offered a specific reschedule, she gets one more chance. If she flakes or tries to reschedule again, hard next.

Edit: at 8, not around 8.

mrsmiley831 · 2020-03-28T21:45:11+00:00

It's probably a shit test. If you say yes you're going to appear too available, and that you're really not a high value male and don't have shit going on.

Respond with "Can't do tomorrow, we'll have to try another day perhaps." and let her hit you back.

IXseed · 2020-03-29T02:31:08+00:00

If she really wanted to see you why the hell would she have waited until YOU hit HER up to confirm? Does that sound like a girl that respects your time?

Don't respond to that. Let her hit you up again.

E9er · 2020-03-29T05:28:45+00:00

she got cold! was feeling your energy in the moment then had a cool off period to rethink and rethink and self doubt herself! you might have lost it! not good with tinder game but i suppose don’t let that initial spark period cool off with randoms or they’ll second guess why they should hang out with a stranger! initiate during the day drinks by afternoon fuck by night?

Title	Shit test? How to proceed?
Author	OffGrubkiller
Upvotes	0
Comments	17
Date	March 28, 2020 7:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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