Slow responder - Next?

Reddthrown · 2014-11-07T11:57:46+00:00

What matters is what she does, not how long it takes. Ask her out and see.

throwbp · 2014-11-07T13:00:51+00:00

Space your responses similar to hers. Keep chatting to a minimum, text is for logistics

ElDiablosadvocate · 2014-11-07T15:04:33+00:00

Forget texting, call her up, ask her out and go from there. A phone call will expedite the process.

LeGrandDiableBlanc · 2014-11-07T16:23:08+00:00

First, only text for logistics. Your text should be, "Meet me at X on Y."

If they don't respond, soft next. Stop reaching out to her and start meeting new women.

If they respond positively, why not give it a go even if its a few days later? As long as you're leading the conversation it won't be a problem, and you'll get points for being aloof/not bitching about her lack of responsiveness.

kingofpoplives · 2014-11-07T16:35:39+00:00

Can I safely assume she isn't interested based on the slow response and I should next her?

Wait a day or two and lob out a response yourself.

Clearly her level of interest isn't high, but if you keep your cool and match her response time there is a chance she will perk up and become willing to go on a date with you.

AlfaWolf · 2014-11-07T19:33:20+00:00

Don't get butt hurt about slow responses, but you respond even slower. Have abundance mentality.

Title	Slow responder - Next?
Author	CunningStunt_1
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	November 7, 2014 11:07 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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