So I've browsed through the sidebar

RaymondCarversDog · 2014-09-09T05:41:14+00:00

TRP isn't really about what to say. It's not pickup artistry where you go in like a robot reading off your script. Telling you what exactly to say in x or y situations is only going to hurt you. The point is to teach you to realize yourself what is actually happening in social situations and to react accordingly.

As for how to think, I would think that reading the sidebar helps with that. I think the Rational Male made the biggest impression on me in terms of thinking. The topics in that link are in a nice baby steps sort of order. Again it is less about what to think specifically and more about seeing the truth of what is going on around you. Why people (especially women) do what they do, react the way they do, don't respond to you, and so forth. You are free to pick and choose what you take to heart as well as the extent to which you believe it and act on it or whatever. It's not some big secret that gets you laid 100% of the time. It's just about being the best version of yourself that you can be and understanding social dynamics in a realistic way.

I'm not sure why you're unwilling to read considering the medium you're using. As with any topic, the amount you learn is directly proportional to the amount of time you're willing to lend to it. There are no shortcuts.

And obviously the best way besides reading is to just go out there and socialize with people, approach women, etc. Reading isn't going to do shit if you don't start internalizing it in real life.

DCLdit · 2014-09-09T15:43:47+00:00

Hey shiversliver.

RaymondCarversDog and theozoph made wonderful points.

With the limited info about you, other than you not being able to read that fast, try this....instead of ten hours of reading, start becoming a bit selfish.

Assuming you have basic people skills and can carry on a convo with anyone, man or woman, being a bit selfish can help jump start your mind into making you your number one priority.

Then, when you are the number one priority in your life, people will see that. How do you do that? Self improvement via exercise, healthy eating, hobbies and a little bit of Game.

It will no longer seem - selfish - and it will just become a part of your personality.

Now, I am not suggesting you become a prick, but a little bit of assholery could help any young man, new to the red pill, get right into it.

Here is an easy example you can use, in the real world, to become a bit more selfish:

The next time you are in a drive-through/waiting in line try and notice how people order food.

You might notice a lot of people ordering like this, "Hi can I get a.....?" - DO NOT ASK for your food.

Instead, TELL THEM what you are getting, "I'll have a..." or "I'll get a...". Try making statements instead of asking for things. To some, this might seem selfish, to others, not at all.

But this simple shift in language, especially if you do not do this often, can help, bit by bit, make you into a man that knows what he wants.

When you start to become that man, you notice how the people around you really are. From then on, the relationships you create with people will be different.

Then the 'red pill' concepts, as RaymondCarversDog said, will become internalized because you have actually experienced them. -d

TLDR - become selfish and you will start to see the light.

shiversliver · 2014-09-09T06:24:10+00:00

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alreadyredschool · 2014-09-09T07:12:38+00:00

RaymondCraversDog explained it very well.

but really nothing on how exactly go to about doing it

Learn game, socialize, lift, read, improve yourself on every level.

You will have to read much much more.

You will read some fictional books and many non fictional books.

You will read about lifting, about style, about Business etc.

theycallme1 · 2014-09-09T13:51:21+00:00

Are you kidding me? You're already bitching out and looking for easy answers? Here let me drop everything I'm doing and Cottle you. Gtfo

DCLdit · 2014-09-09T16:28:41+00:00

I was reading the redpill sup today and it shared some great snapshots of reddit posts, check this one out for actionable steps (copy this in the search bar), "Focus on you first. And second. And third. And...blah blah...Worry about women seventh." -d

Title	So I've browsed through the sidebar
Author	shiversliver
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	September 9, 2014 5:10 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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