Soft Nexted my Gf

ShotgunTRP · 2019-06-13T11:23:06+00:00

She sounds mentally stable

Maybe its time for a trade in

MattyAnon · 2019-06-13T11:37:52+00:00

should I text back now or wait and let her dread more?

48 hours

Ninokun · 2019-06-13T13:27:50+00:00

Did someone shit in the head off all you guys? this sounds like the perfect deal, when she gets jealus ignore her, otherwise enjoy.

I have many experiences with women exactly like this, mainly i because I date women with backgrounds where family is number one. all u have to do is not care. dont engage in her jealousy fits. other women are gonna suck u dry, u have a real diamond here.

ArdAtak · 2019-06-13T23:09:36+00:00

Sounds like a good girl. Maybe give her a little bit of security. Dread is intended work as a subtle undercurrent. Not a tsunami you beat your girl over the head with. Sounds like she deserves a little more comfort from you.

purplehazemaze · 2019-06-13T14:47:11+00:00

Tbh it sounds like she’s crazy.. but crazy about you. If ur not bothered by that behavior and she’s a good girl to you I don’t see why it would require a hard next. Just do what ur gut wants in this situation my guy

TBtgoat · 2019-06-13T12:44:13+00:00

You can't negotiate desire, we all know that. You also, can't negotiate crazy. Soft next, hard next, instant next it doesn't matter, you outta there in 4.

Startlivingfornow · 2019-06-13T11:40:20+00:00

Go read the married Redpill subreddit, far better advice than you’ll get here.

And yes, you got the reaction you wanted now move on.

BPasFuck · 2019-06-13T11:34:47+00:00

Yuck. Honestly sounds like you're in the middle of dodging a bullet.

Here's a tip: That behavior isn't really going to stop. The more time you spend with her, the worse it'll get. That's the real her-- attempting to nag you into 'being different.' That's her trying to 'work' on you.

Blech. Who needs that? Replace her.

furcryingoutloud · 2019-06-13T15:29:29+00:00

It's so easy to hard next someone else's girl.

johnnight · 2019-06-13T14:52:40+00:00

> Has had only 1 previous relationship, Lost her virginity to me.

dudes like you are the cause of crazy man-hating bitches and crazy feminists.

Hurt people take revenge not on the same person, but on others from the same category.

brabg · 2019-06-13T14:13:23+00:00

she's very ... Submissive

You have to do it with all women, but submissive needs extra leadership. You have to be demanding, giving tasks and obligations to her, so she is occupied and fells useful and validated.

You give validation by rewarding her obedience. If you don't do it, she starts shit testing you, making trouble, because women need direction, and need to be loved for pleasing you.

moltenw · 2019-06-13T15:44:15+00:00

More context neccessary.

What did you soft next her for?

boyx70 · 2019-06-13T14:06:33+00:00

No comment on why you decided to do this?

WIA20XX · 2019-06-13T16:50:32+00:00

Love to hear the soft next experts on how this guy is supposed to get back in touch with this girl

MOSFETBJT · 2019-06-13T17:03:56+00:00

gonna go against the grain and actually say you get back with her. she sounds less shit than most.

Jabbermouth · 2019-06-13T17:45:42+00:00

What was the reason for the soft next? You left that out.

priapula · 2019-06-13T20:21:30+00:00

If you had a legitimate reason to soft next, and she has messed up, you can do whatever. I would text back tho, its a girlfriend not a plate. Call her and maintain frame, she'll love you for it

OkCellist2 · 2019-06-13T21:06:40+00:00

you sound like a meany head

Title	Soft Nexted my Gf
Author	iFrozy_
Upvotes	17
Comments	34
Date	June 13, 2019 11:10 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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