First I want to say that I'm new here. Currently still reading the RP handbook. I do lift and are making good progress, I've noticed the different it makes. My problem is shyness and I have to work more on that.

I've had a relationship with a girl for 4 years now. We've lived together basically the whole relation.

Some things I've noticed is that when I have strong feelings for her, sometimes it's more and then I start to be more cute with her. I kiss her more and I generally want to be close to her. Several times she's told me "I don't like you being intense". And my question about it is, should I treat her worse? Like be rude with her and not polite. I'm trying it out right now, using short tone, ignoring her a bit.