So it appears people seem to think the way to meet girls is to do cold approach. You can meet girls anywhere is being said. It is easy is being said. However cold approach is the hard and painful way. And most guys do not do cold approach and still meet girls.

I tried to ask 'where to meet girls' hoping to get something better than hardcore envoirements like the street or a supermarket. Rarely do guys approach girls in supermarkets or on the street. It is almost never done. It is hardcore.

It was my hope that someone could point at an envoirement that is slightly easier to operate in. A place, a building, something where you do not have to approach right out of the middle of nowhere, like a maniac. Even a bar is a better envoirement than the street. Approaching girls sitting at tables in restaurants or even the park is not common. It does not happen. Only the hardcore nut does that.

How can nobody see it? Just go to a park or a supermarket or a street. It does not happen. I asked 'where to meet girls' and I get answers only for those hardcore, non-normal envoirements. Where do normal people meet girls? As if the question is complicated.

I ask 'what to say to a girl?' I am not looking for crazy weird PUA stuff. Just some words to speak and an answer for the question as to why in the hell I am speaking. What do I do when I do not know the answer? Like a lamb right for slaugther.

"Just use a situational opener". Alright. The grass is green when in the park. Oranges are orange in the supermarket. Tiles on the street are grey. How is that for a situation opener? People say they talk to girls all the times, but then do not say what to say and when to say.

How can one ever extract any meaning out of vague stuff like this.

Where to talk to girls without resorting to hardcore cold approach, without using crazy weird PUA stuff? Like normal average people? What do those average non-threatening people say? They sure do not approach on the street. They sure do not talk to girls in the supermarket. Those normal average people are doing something else. They go to some location and say non threatening words in safe and secure envoirements.

I need something better than 'don't be a bitch' or 'just be social'. Where do these average people go to meet girls. They must go somewhere. Sometimes average people move around to other cities and have to start from scratch. They do that not on the street. Not in the supermarket. Somewhere else. And once arrived at this secret location nobody wants to tell me about they say simple non threatening words to get the ball started. What are those words?

These average people get together with girls fairly quickly. They are not alpha man. They can be boring programmers. They can be ugly. These average people cannot have massive social skills either. Plenty are awkward and socially clumsy. What are the words these people speak? What gets them together with girls this quickly?

These average people go to some magical place nobody has ever told me about and speak in a non threatening and totally safe and socially accepted way a certain set of words. Starting with a single sentence and ending wiht more words. What are these magical words? What is this magical sentence used to start? They certainly do not approach girls out of nowhere in a park.

Talking to some old lady in the supermarket? How is that getting me near these secret envoirements? How does this relate to these secret words spoken in these envoirements? Plenty average boring people do not meet in bars. Plenty do not approach ladies in supermarkets.