Hi all,

Long story short for the last year I've been absorbing everything TRP, lifting, health, fashion and improving my social skills etc... I look back on my former self and feel disgusted over what a beta schlub I was; stuck in a caustic nine year relationship which I ended.. compared to the semi bad-ass I am now.

Now girls often come on to me at bars etc, but Im just not interested.. in some cases I just feel repulsed by them and its a mental fight not to tear pieces off them during any shit tests they may try on me.

Im not abusive in any way to them, and tend to handle them like a bastardly gentleman.. with added sarcasm, but its getting old.

Its like ive lost the thirst for them, and I miss it...Any tips to over come this? Do I try to spin plates until my situation changes? Feels unrewarding in the few times that I do.

Any help would be awesome.. thanks

Edit

Bowled over by the great support here guys.. thanks!

I have already taken steps to be actively doing things that I want/wanted to do.. such as learning guitar/skiiing... I have also "chosen to be happy" each and every day for the last week.. its starting to pay off.

I guess I was worried about becoming an incel or regressing back to beta if I did not sleep with X amount of girls, overtime... My focus is now solely on myself, my new social circle, new hobbies and all things selfish to my improvement!

Thanks again!