I'm stumped. Met a true HB8.5 online and we arrange a meet-up at a bar. She has on a LBD and heads are turning. She starts with the shit tests early - she was late - and I called her on it right away (thanks TRP!), she apologizes. The night goes great after that. Tons of mutual kino. I keep solid frame all night -- even the cute waitress sits down with us at one point - which made her edge a little (good).

An hour in, HB pulls my hand onto to her thigh. I escalate and we roll right to a major make out. She was fucking aggressive. I could literally feel the heat rising from her crotch. I disengage for a minute, she grabs my chin and pulls me back in. Things keep heating and I say let's go. My car is in a different lot so I use it as excuse to jump in hers to drive me over. Good move because immediate lusty makeout. She reclines the seat, is saying shit like "god you smell so good", grabbing the back of my head, etc

Then completely out of the fucking blue - the mother of all LMR. Hard stop. Do not pass go. She bolts up, says "I need to go". I keep my frame - "well my place is around the corner". "No, I have to go now". I stop, sit up and give her the steely-eyed eyebrow lift of "say what?" She pulls me back across the seat for more heavy liplocks then a final "I really really have to go but when can we get together again?" I tell her I need to check but sometime in the next week or so will probably work.

Two days later I text: "Worst date ever, she was late, rude, and totally not into it." She writes back right away. "OMG you too! ;-)" I say I'll text her when I get my schedule. "Great. Talk soon! :-)" A few days later, I text her about getting together.

Now get this: she writes back right away. And I quote: "I'm not interested. Delete my number. Good luck."

I'm like WTF but I just write back "weak".

And that's where things stand at current. This is a total headscratcher in my somewhat storied history. Thoughts, askTRP?