Temptation.

SovereignWings · 2016-02-06T16:36:18+00:00

Why are you asking us for approval?

If you want to fuck around, do it.

If you don't, don't.

Sounds like you might need to take some time to think about your relationship and what you want out of it.

demilitarizdsm · 2016-02-06T19:49:47+00:00

Oversea for a long period of time? You should have ended it. Also a woman traveling gets SMV inflation and often fucks around and/or comes back with her inflated ego being a problem.

kempff · 2016-02-06T18:17:55+00:00

How does she have a right to your sexual exclusivity?

MentORPHEUS · 2016-02-06T21:00:24+00:00

LDRs are foolish, if she's gone for an extended period its best to call it off at least for the duration of her awayness.

Break up over the phone and go for these other women if you want them so bad. Don't be surprised when they act WAY differently when you are single and available to them!

CDBaller · 2016-02-06T21:52:22+00:00

Why is she overseas and why didn't you break up before she left?

LegElbow · 2016-02-07T04:16:00+00:00

It's beta to be in an LDR.

RickJamesBeyach · 2016-02-06T21:49:44+00:00

If you're asking for someone to ease your guilt or give you moral guidance you're in the wrong place. Talk to your minister.

The right questions to ask this group is do long distance relationships work (usually no for an extended period) and what are the odds that your girl will mess around when overseas for an extended period (probably high). It's up to you to figure out how to act on that information.

Money_Bags97 · 2016-02-06T18:17:39+00:00

If you want to cheat then do it but be prepared to get caught.

Personally I think if your thinking about cheating you've already checked out of the relationship. You're just a dick for wasting her time

thiasus · 2016-02-06T17:36:34+00:00

Since you are evidently not indifferent to the question, ask yourself this: do I wanna deal with the fear of the cheating being discovered at some point?

Honestly I don't think it's worth it. If you don't want to be monogamous don't, but be honest about it. It's much easier for you and everyone else.

Title	Temptation.
Author	StrongButter
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	February 6, 2016 3:51 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/44gph6/temptation/
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