Text from (past) oneitis

TattedGuyser · 2014-08-16T02:56:40+00:00

"hey" is her hook to snag you back in. She knows quite well you were her orbiter. Women love orbiters. Don't fall back in line, just ignore that shit.

dmt267 · 2014-08-16T05:26:42+00:00

Ignore it. I'm basically in the same situation and she's been random snapchatting me.

stealthcreeper · 2014-08-16T11:39:18+00:00

My ex did this to me after 3 and half weeks of no contact.

I texted back the next day and its been 4 days and she didnt texted back yet. Girls can be really selfish.

The next time she texts me Im gonna say:

"Okay [her name], its enough, dont talk to me ever again."

or...just ignore her forever.

LibertarianLibertine · 2014-08-16T12:31:38+00:00

I was thinking about this scenario yesterday. Just ignore her, she was likely bored

laere · 2014-08-16T18:08:41+00:00

Delete her contact info immediately. Ghost her as well. Trust me I have sent some past oneitis's some drunken texts that can really make you look beta as fuck. It's best to delete all info and pretend she never existed.

machimus · 2014-08-16T23:46:32+00:00

I love how you put "past" in there as if you'd even be asking if it were anything but.

DanG3 · 2014-08-16T02:09:30+00:00

Respond: "Hey ... [wrong name] ... I'll be at XYZ Bar at PDQ time. Stop by and I'll let you buy me few so you can take advantage of me again."

HowDeepTheRabbit · 2014-08-16T05:56:29+00:00

I'm not entirely sure why everyone says to ignore it. If shes sexually availible and you have truly moved past her as a oneitis there would be no harm in replying and quickly suggesting meeting for drinks or something of the like. If that goes south who cares, you are wise enough not to fall into orbit again. If you escalate and have fun you might just get laid. If shes not interested, fuck that and next her, shes looking for satelites.

ManOfGrapes · 2014-08-16T01:27:55+00:00

This happened to me recently as well. Of course it depends on how things were when you last talked, but for me, it's been pretty great to see how she reacts now that I've swallowed the pill. I would look at it as a potential plate situation.

Title	Text from (past) oneitis
Author	imthemanyesiam
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	August 16, 2014 1:00 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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