I was reading an article about why psychopaths and sociopaths tend to get highly attractive girls, and it was different from the methods that I often see suggested in trp.
The sociopath does the following:
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Treats the girl as if she's the only girl in the world for a period of time. He gives her the best sex, tells her how lucky he is to have her, reassures his love for her, replies to every text in seconds, acts as if he's "different" then every other guy, and uses great charm. I mean, he literally lures the girl by love bombing her and doing anything for her, which is usually attributed to Beta male type behavior.
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Once he has gotten her to fall for him, he begins to withdraw the love bombing, but only in increments. The girl is left a little confused but is sure that he's just busy or something.
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This is when the guy starts using high-level manipulation. Usually the sociopath forms love-triangles with past interests or really does anything to break down the girl's foundation of confidence. Jealousy, lust, really any emotion the guy can exploit is used against the girl. By now the girl is left dumbfounded and is hopelessly searching for all the attention she had at the beginning.
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The sociopath fully withdraws attention, the girl begins to chase. To the sociopath he does this because he's truly lost any reason to keep the girl around. To him, this was just an experiment on how much power he could have over his target. To her, she needs the same dopamine hits she was getting at the beginning. When she tries to move on to the next Chad she breaks down, she can't stop thinking about the sociopath. And since she's realized the power scales have changed, she will do anything to get the same excitement.
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Just when the girl thinks she can move on, the sociopath begins to love bomb her again. She's now caught in a wave of confusion. The sociopath usually blocks her out of his daily life between steps 4 and 5, and being faced with a brick wall in front of her, she realizes she needs to move on in order to find another guy to commit to her. The sociopath, who monitors things like social media and gets information on her emotions from loosely attached friends, eventually pops back in and gives that same love she longed after in the beginning. She will usually try to resist but is easily broken down.
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Rinse and repeat until he actually loses interest.
Sorry that this was so long, but why is this so effective if he exhibits Beta male behaviors throughout?
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