Thoughts on Blocking a girl?

AuberyBitoni · 2021-04-14T06:44:43+00:00

I block girls all the time, zero fucks given. Girls who blow up my phone, crazy girls, girls who flake on me or waste my time in general, girls who look fatter in real life than on their pictures, ...

Who cares if it makes you look insecure? I don’t. I’ve blocked loads of girls, will keep doing it in the future.

Hard-Truth7 · 2021-04-14T04:29:05+00:00

Everyone says to block. I’m guessing the reason is for newbies to protect their own mental sanity. And, to remove the option her reaching out to them, distracting them, and suckering them in to a friend-zone type situation.

Personally, I would not ever block girl unless it was legit for my own safety and to protect myself. I agree that blocking a girl seems kind of butthurt and extreme. Like why do you care, just don’t respond. Blocking is only used if she’s fucking stalking you texting and calling every day. That’s my opinion though, like you said a lot of guys here are going to disagree with that. Do whatever you want to do.

MoistObligation9999 · 2021-04-14T05:24:15+00:00

I've personally never blocked. Removed attention, ghosted, not replied, yes. I find that gets the job done so no need to block as well.

SnooTomatoes3703 · 2021-04-14T05:04:59+00:00

Don't block, be indifferent, as if blocking or not it doesn't even matter,have no conversation and ghost her instead of blocking, also don't totally ignore if she texts or says hi, just be blank and reply coldly like, hi, what, ok, k etc.

This sends a message that you are not hurt/still care, if you block her, it sends a message as if you still think about her.

Just be indifferent

Returnofthemack3 · 2021-04-14T06:51:43+00:00

I personally don't think it's a problem. Sure, it'd be better if you didnt care enough to block, but realistically it's not always that easy, especially if you're still early in your journey. I'd say do whatever helps you, who cares

319Skew · 2021-04-14T08:02:04+00:00

I don't block a woman unless she royally fucked up or I don't want in my life at all.

Deleting them is fine Imo. Sometimes a plate swings back as a possibility. I don't look for it but won't turn it down.

Also, giving a shit about what she thinks is pointless. If you block/delete her because you're butt hurt or you don't care, it's not like she's going to probe into it.

She'll assume whatever narrative and move on.

Terrorinthecity1 · 2021-04-14T13:07:00+00:00

I always preach don’t block a girl. You feel the need to block her because your still thinking about her. PRACTICE DISCIPLINE. How will you ever get an abundance mentality when you cant help but block every girl your obsessing about

I say this in reason though, if you just broke up with your ltr of 3 years and she posting her new BF block her or remove her. No need to torture yourself like that

Downcast-VII · 2021-04-14T17:20:01+00:00

I just delete the chat instead, if anything. I'll block only if shes acting very weird.

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cfbovernfl · 2021-04-14T04:40:24+00:00

Yeah, don't do it.

I was angry after an unsuccessful date last year when the girl didn't want to meet again and unfollowed her. Realized later that it just made me look like even more of a bitch. The bad date was completely my fault, not hers, and she didn't deserve that.

Take responsibility for what goes wrong (unless it really is on her or she's being super annoying) and go radio silent.

Title	Thoughts on Blocking a girl?
Author	SnooTomatoes3703
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Date	April 14, 2021 3:07 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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