Tinder Convo: Where did I go wrong?

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-02-08T21:32:38+00:00

some guys here will disagree with me, but my tinder strategy has always been the same and it works just fine. the strategy is, dont talk on tinder. just demand their cell# immediately. far more efficient method of weeding out the ones who are just using it as an attention faucet. i dono about you, but last time i turned on that app i had 700 new matches. that shits a fucking chore. just say "cute, cell#" and thats it. there is 0 reason to talk on tinder.. you have better things to do

vandaalen · 2018-02-08T21:40:53+00:00

Much too aggressive. Curb it.

She basically told you she wants the D and you keep talking and talking horseshit. Latest when she talked about her ass you should have just told her you will take a look in real life and tell her, followed by telling her to send her number. Then set up date, meet, escalate, fuck.

redhawkes · 2018-02-08T22:16:32+00:00

Her: I have a nice ass?

'Let me judge that', then setup logistics.

youcantdenythat · 2018-02-08T21:19:45+00:00

Don't talk about other matches or other girls, it comes across as try-hard.

TehJimmyy · 2018-02-08T22:23:14+00:00

Her: Someone's super confident in themselves. Why don't you come down and test it for yourself.

Why dont we test this with you . Meet me at xyz"

or

Her: I have a nice ass?

I am not sure.Lets meet at xyz and find out

Her: But it's the best tho

Me: Mhm I'm sure

^ Just gave her the attention she needs.

quicklogaccount · 2018-02-08T21:33:20+00:00

mmmmm.
Honestly speaking, there's nothing wrong. You used an aggressive, Chad-ish approach, it looked like she was buying it, but she wasn't. That's precisely how it looks like when it blows.

There are more fail safe approaches you can use but if that one is working enough, sure as hell it's fun and ego massaging to do. Tinder is number's game either way.

IronJohnKwando · 2018-02-09T11:50:57+00:00

too much talking. Get the number and make a date. You had it at “...test it for yourself”

bupkiss1290 · 2018-02-08T21:27:37+00:00

Given her response of "I would show you if I could but I can't so that sucks for you", it sounds like she was just using the app for fun/an ego boost and it would not have really mattered what you said at that point. It happens and given that you weren't planning on going over there it's not a big deal.

Only two things I'd suggest are as follows:

After "but it's the best tho" saying "prove it" instead of "mhm I'm sure"
After she said " I would show you if I could but I can't so that sucks for you" saying "why's that?"

CutLiver · 2018-02-08T22:14:22+00:00

Me: You're like the 5th person I've matched with from [campus] today and I don't even go there...

Her: lmao well maybe you should go to [campus], it's a sign.

Me: I would leave there with more hickeys than skin haha.

Her: Someone's super confident in themselves. Why don't you come down and test it for yourself.

Should have given her your number right there and set up the date.

I would have said something like "Why don't you text me - (number)"

Title	Tinder Convo: Where did I go wrong?
Author	Spiral-Out-KeepGoing
Upvotes	4
Comments	21
Date	February 8, 2018 9:06 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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