So my wife and I are going through hard times. She says she's not attracted to me anymore. She's seeing counseling, but I think even if the counseling works, she will only have a general/mild attraction to me. I recently was turned onto TRP in the past 2 months.

I'm in good shape, workout regularly, have a high paying job, have 3 kids, am liked by friends/peers.

I totally admit that the loss of attraction is due to my complete betaization over the past 10 years. I'm trying to up my alpha, lay down more rules, stop texting her, stop putting her first for everything.

I don't think she will really appreciate me until she realizes that I have options. I'm having problems invoking dread game because we are so rarely around women. We go out pretty regularly, but everyplace we go has either no women, only ugly women, or only couples.

Any advice?