Now that i've gone from a no one to a someone i can't help but see the faults and areas of improvements in others who are in the same situation i was facing and instinctively want to help them.

I don't want to be 'that guy' that you can never please and criticises everything you do, especially if i raise children later on.

How do you accept others with different values and interests to you and stop wanting to convert them to your way of thinking?