Unprotected sex

2Bait4Me · 2016-06-03T15:28:06+00:00

Dont be a fucking idiot, just wear a condom.

DaxGrayBlog · 2016-06-03T15:10:13+00:00

Don't ever take that risk unless you've had a vasectomy and are sure it's been successful and you've both had recent STI checks. Your life is worth more than that

Just pull out? She'd love to catch you like that.

You're obviously smarter than that, keep using your head.

RetiredTimeHo · 2016-06-03T15:44:08+00:00

Its funny how society makes it seem like its always the guy who doesnt want to put a condom and pushes the girl into fucking without one, pure feminism propaganda. From experience NOT ONE girl has ever asked me to put a condom on and i seriously doubt any would of stopped me had i went in without one. The most that i got was when i would go get the condom they would say''oh yeah i was just gonna ask'' of course you were ..lol. And be fucking sure they ALWAYS found ways to mention they were on BC 100 times a day.(as if i would fuck them raw cuz of that)

Me and my friends have also spoken about this and its all been similar experiences. My friends are pretty blue pill in ltr and all either 1. Fuck raw and pull-out NO birth control 2. Fuck raw on bc leaving everything in the girls power.

bornredd · 2016-06-03T15:41:03+00:00

Do you live in the south/bible belt? I run into this in FL/GA/MS/AL/LA/TX a lot. It's the shitty sex education.

Here's what I do - pull it out as you're about to get started. If she says anything negative you say, "We all have our own rules, and this is one of mine."

End of discussion. I've never had anyone give me shit after that.

quicklogaccount · 2016-06-03T17:29:38+00:00

Pulling out is by far the most ineffective way to prevent a pregnancy man.
And yep, unprotected is ridiculously better. You'll last under a minute the first time you do it.

After a little thought I came out with this rule with some bros. It's still a risk though. Provided she says she's on BC:
1 - You are on an exclusive relationship;
2 - Before you entered the exclusive relationship, the girl was ADAMANT about using condoms;
3 - 3+ months between the last partner and the latest STD screening for the both of you. This is SERIOUS;
4 - She doesn't have a "worry free" attitude. She doesn't close her eyes to problems thinking they'll manage themselves;
5 - She's not in a baby fever age, she's not amazed by pregnant women, she's not melting to cabin babies on the street.

[deleted] · 2016-06-03T14:41:46+00:00

Better to use a condom, than to get a girl pregnant or get an STD. Unless you got a vasectomy and know without a doubt your girl is clean, just keep using. Although, after a while with a FWB, I did start using condoms because she looked like she didn't have anything strange down there and I don't have an STD, or a kid.

ilikesquash2 · 2016-06-03T15:36:11+00:00

How the fuck do people have raw unprotected sex so casually?

Commonsense is well not as common as you think. People who dont use protection during casual sex are simply put, idiots.

As for yourself ask, do you want Kids or an illness? if the answer to either one is NO, then bag it up and dont care what anyone (male or female) thinks.

Why are you worrying how other men are being idiots?

If a friend said to you "HEY TAPEROLL, I ate 4 triple bacon cheeseburgers dipped in mayo and deep fried." Telling them that this is not a smart or healthy choice, you will come off as pompous. Doing the same for "Hey Bro i hit that with no condom!"...Do not try to save anyone. Trust me people dont want to be saved!

good luck out there and be safe until you want to have a child.

adam_varg · 2016-06-03T22:20:14+00:00

To answer your question.

Because some people are stupid, other arent paranoid/brainwashed by propaganda and take their chances.

STD and unwanted pregnancy numbers are so high (especially in US) due to big numbers of whatevercolor-trash people. Mainstream advice is intentionally made to shock and scare people.

Most of unwanted pregnancies and stds are ghetto people. 90-99% hiv positive are gays.

So if you are smart about and not unlucky you are good to go.

I have to add though, i am guy who takes a much more risky actions regularly and for fun (ex hardcore party type for 6 years nonstop, currently alpine climbing and shit).

Soarinc · 2016-06-03T23:08:45+00:00

Seriously I can't believe you're really asking if it is worth it to get a life-ruining disease? I mean are you a clueless moron who was born yesterday and would risk the rest of your livelihood over something that last 5 minutes?

Always rubber up and pour hydrogen peroxide on yourself when you get home before you sleep. Unprotected sex is the stupidest risk a guy could ever possibly take.

KnocksEmUp · 2016-06-04T02:22:13+00:00

Your arguments are rational and sensible. But if so, why bother fucking at all? Fucking is for creaming and possible procreation, that's why it is so pleasurable. It is true that it is becoming easier for women to pin child support on you if you knock them up but there are still circumstances (such as who you are fucking and where in the world you do it) under which your only worry should be STDs, and STD is rarely as likely and as bad as the beta-media make it sound. Me, for casual fucks, I prefer women who are in LTRs with others or who cannot find me. I fuck them raw, I nut inside, and I have been quite safe and healthy for a long time doing just that. I must add that I do not fuck drunkards or druggies, and I did pay for a couple of abortions of others' LTRs who were not willing to take the risk that their SO will find out that they cheated if they gave birth. For me, it is a minor expense or I would not even have done that much for them. I don't know how many SOs paid for such abortions themselves, but I suspect it happened too (they would not know there was a doubt who the real father is). It worked fine for me so far: I have never paid child support. Long ago, however, I was too timid to try to impregnate anybody. In those days, unless she said she was protected, I pulled out, with no pregnancy that I know of. Ideally, I would nut in her mouth but it is true that some women resist that. It is also true that I never stayed long with such a resister. Only one of those who said they were protected got pregnant, and although there was some drama, it ended by abortion (my first). She then moved from LTR status to FWB and after that I nutted exclusively in her mouth. Incidentally, she was the most beautiful LTR I ever had, somewhere between 9.5 to 10 (although some here might opine that, at 5'4 she was too short), but that was not sufficient inducement for me to marry her, as she had hoped.

ChadThundercockII · 2016-06-03T15:48:58+00:00

I'll put this as a forward. I'm an idiot.

With that said, I don't wear a condom. The rubber makes my dick shrink. It's a mental thing. The only disease I can be afraid of is HIV, but it needs blood to be transmitted. I make sure that the pussy is well lubricated and then insert gently. I donate blood regularly, and the tests always come out negative for HIV. As for the little soldiers reaching enemy base, I don't really care.

everythingisthrown · 2016-06-03T17:14:14+00:00

It's so much better without a condom, I wish I never tried raw.

dumbTRPguy · 2016-06-03T18:23:57+00:00

I'd rather pass up the opportunity to get laid than fuck without a condom. Use that abundance mentality and just next her if you have to.

Title	Unprotected sex
Author	pm_me_ur_taperoll
Upvotes	10
Comments	56
Date	June 3, 2016 2:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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