Wanted redpill feed back

TakeEverything · 2018-01-04T02:52:48+00:00

fnordsnord · 2018-01-04T04:24:50+00:00

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majestyalphaq · 2018-01-04T02:49:13+00:00

Has she shown any lack of interest or red flags towards u before you read her facebook messages? Just because she complained about the sex, doesn't entirely mean you should ghost her. It is your first time, and she is her most honest self(to a certain extent) with her friends.

Edit: she doesnt seem that impressed and attracted to you, saying how you earn your money from mommy daddy and all If i were you, i'd ghost her. End it on your terms

OR

You can fuck her more, but thats it. She's just a plate. Mere meat to put your dick into. But don't give her the level of attention than what she deserves.

redd_reality · 2018-01-04T03:31:54+00:00

No pussy is worth your self respect. You keep her around, you'll hate yourself for it. You don't need that bitch.

JerryMullin1978 · 2018-01-04T04:06:24+00:00

Everybody sucks for awhile at sex. You’re going to learn from this girl because she’s practice. I’m telling you man, every girl is there to be enjoyed in the moment and for you to learn from. Get dirty with this chick and don’t be afraid.

And don’t worry about a damn thing about what she says. She keeps coming back to you. If she contacts you, go hook up with her. Just know she’s practice.

IRideParkCity · 2018-01-04T04:21:06+00:00

Confused cause you started with "I'm leaning towards the idea of making her my girlfriend."

But then ended with you blocked her on everything and ghosted her?

Regardless, if she knows your upset and that you blocked her on social media then you're already fucked. You're supposed to be Mr cool, nothing gets to you, been there seen that. Instead, you're looking like a whiny little kid who got his feelings hurt.

Since you wanted redpill feedback and all.

SirKolbath · 2018-01-04T04:34:14+00:00

My first realization that my marriage was doomed came when I was sitting at the kitchen table eating a sandwich and my wife's laptop popped up a notification from her toxic best friend replying to a nine paragraph bitch session about me. The absolute lack of respect and the way my wife spoke about me was the writing on the wall.

Plus side, I learned firsthand that AWALT and being beta doesn't work. I had gotten too complacent and comfortable and she knew it.

CutLiver · 2018-01-04T04:57:08+00:00

You were being too over-emotional. And you're insecure. Don't go through girl's social media/phones/whatever. By doing that all you're doing is showing that you're insecure, and you will ALWAYS find something that you don't like. Why? Because you're looking for it. So even if the girl is a freaking angel and she says one little thing bad about you, you're going to latch onto that. That shit will eat you up inside, making you even more insecure and needy, and eventually you'll drive the girl away. If the girl shows red flags or she's a liar then you make a mental note of it, cut emotions out of the equation, and keep her as a FWB. Never chase a girl like that. Let them chase you until you find a good girl.

Major point about the messages: This girl is NOT LTR material. At all. But neither are you. Figure out your insecurities dude... seriously. At this point you've already done damage with her. With that said, if you want to keep her as a FWB you probably can, because when women want to be "serious" with you it means that they're starting to fall in love with you.

So how do you do it?

Unblock her. Don't be emotional like that. That's for women dude.
Tell her you had something bad happen in your family and you're sorry for acting like an asshole but you're over it now and you'd like to see her. Hang out and hook up.
When she asks to be serious again - which she will if you forget about those messages and just have fun - tell her you don't want to focus on labels or anything but you want to keep seeing her and "let's just see what happens".
Never commit to her. She'll either keep chasing you until you find another girl and cut it off with her, or she'll eventually fade out of the picture. Either way, you win.

Instantly nexting a girl for something like this is dumb. You even admit you're a bit small. That shit doesn't even matter though. Hook up with her and get more experience... ask her what she likes and doesn't like. Just have fun with her. But no, don't make her your girlfriend.

Title	Wanted redpill feed back
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Comments	13
Date	January 4, 2018 2:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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