What am i doing wrong with bumble/tinder?

BrutalMan420 · 2018-06-21T02:45:21+00:00

not a dating app pro, but i glance at your messages tells me youre using very boring language. i think you should be polarising, more assertive. i read that guide too, it said every single chump opens with safe boring ass chit chat like youre doing. you need to stand out, be different, excite her, make her laugh, fuck even making her angry would be better than neutral boring conversation.

not an app pro, just my first thought

Peter_B_Long · 2018-06-21T03:11:02+00:00

"Well you're not gonna get any more sleep with me"

DakJev · 2018-06-21T03:15:10+00:00

Sigh, I wasn't gonna comment, but I suppose I lend you a tip. All I want you to do is swap your picks with photos of male models. Message girls with the EXACT SAME OPENERS AND REPLIES THAT YOU TEXTED BEFORE, IN FACT, DONT EVEN CHANGE YOUR PROFILE (THIS IS A MUST)!

Welcome to the real world Neo. Hit the gym and raise your SMV. You are welcome.

*Pro tip: They stopped msging not necessarily because you were being boring. But Chad came into the picture.

FearGarbhArMait · 2018-06-21T11:39:08+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8ntlth/how_to_really_succeed_at_tinder_not_just_another/?st=JIOGLZTA&sh=0f53108c

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bluefingerblue · 2018-06-21T13:58:59+00:00

Try not giving a fuck about the outcome. Try making yourself laugh first and foremost, and if it alienates her in the process, who cares. At least you got a good laugh out of it. But funny thing is that kind of attitude will usually work in your favor. You’re being boring because you don’t want to say something stupid that will mess up your chances. Pretend you’re talking to your best bud. Would you be that boring with him? Doubt it. Just say some ridiculous, funny shit without worrying about the consequences.

Edit: also worth mentioning, don’t overdo it. Don’t send really long messages. And don’t think about it too hard. Both of those things will show desperation. You literally have to convince yourself not to give a fuck about the outcome. You can’t be thinking “wow ok gotta say something funny here cause this is my last chance at a date this week.” Instead think “I’m gonna make myself laugh and if this chick doesn’t appreciate it who cares, her loss, there’s a zillion others just like her.”

Title	What am i doing wrong with bumble/tinder?
Author	Rhalium
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	June 21, 2018 2:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8sob84/what_am_i_doing_wrong_with_bumbletinder/
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