What do you pay for?

Sensei_Hensei · 2016-09-26T18:43:16+00:00

Honestly I pay for dates

Dirkz · 2016-09-26T18:45:40+00:00

I treat women as I would male friends. I'm not buying them shit for no reason. But once I've established that she pays for her own shit I'll do things like "I get this round, you get the next". You don't have to make things difficult logistically to avoid all forms of buying her shit.

In my last LTR I would buy dinner one night and she would buy dinner the next. If I paid for an exceptionally expensive meal I'd make her pay for the next 2. Don't provide, but don't make things unnecessarily difficult in order to avoid spending a penny on a girl.

Surfincloud9 · 2016-09-26T19:57:48+00:00

We always go 50/50. She refuses to let me pay for her, she knows she respects me and looks better when she pays her own way. And I make 5x more than her each month. I've tried to pay in the past and she says no but she will spend her money on me and buy me food.

I rarely let her pay for me even though she would in a heartbeat. Sometimes I will buy her something nice if she is being a good girl and continually makes me happy and grow.

Terdmuffin · 2016-09-26T19:45:10+00:00

Casually dating usually split everything. Every once in while I'll pay or maybe she will will.

Ltr is more nuanced for me. I like a you got the last one, I'll get this one style but It's not like strict. Big things like vacations, etc are evenly split but usually more like ill book the hotel, you pay for travel. In an ltr I'm less worried about it being "even".

Sam1490 · 2016-09-26T22:17:06+00:00

Usually split unless it's an ltr. If the girl says something, I just say "I only pay for dates with my gf"

jrnico · 2016-09-27T01:32:29+00:00

Depends where they are in life. In college surviving on student aid and loans? I don't mind paying. Have a career/decent job? Ok, we can split.
Really though, when you make decent money, whats a few bucks a couple times a week?

the_red_monk · 2016-09-27T01:57:45+00:00

I've paid for ice-cream before. But usually I go dutch unless in an LTR. Then it depends on the circumstances. If they start to take it for granted, I take it away.

brooklynisburnin · 2016-09-27T03:33:44+00:00

I choose what we do/where we go, I pay, then she pays for dessert or drinks.

She has anything to say about what I wanted to do, she pays half.

All_Ads_Deceive · 2016-09-27T06:11:22+00:00

Don't spend a penny on women. I've seen broke girls rack up credit card debt on Chads. I've also seen drug addicted women give their last hit to Chads

verily_rp · 2016-09-26T18:12:34+00:00

I pay for nothing. My plates pay for me.

Why? Because I am the prize. Paying for her puts you in the betabux category.

Title	What do you pay for?
Author	Toussant
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	September 26, 2016 6:03 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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