Ok I got to figure out what is going on here. I’m 43. I use dating apps to have casual sex with girls with daddy issues in their 20s, of which their appears to be an endless supply.

First of all, my game is a little different than the “text only for logistics” and “no first date dinner” game you see preached on her. My goal is first date sex and I have a ridiculously high success rate (90%). BUT it requires more upfront investment. I do text, call, and FaceTime in the days leading up to the first date and usually so put together sometime nice for the date...generally a nice dinner at a nice hotel where it’s easy to hit the hotel bar after dinner and then ideally get a room after that.

This system has worked extremely well the last 3 years. However the last 3 women in a row have been ages 26, 25, and 24. All 3 of them seemed really into me. All 3 I had amazing first date sex with. All 3 said they wanted to do something again in the near future. And all 3 ghosted me within 1-2 days after the date.

I cannot figure this shit out for the life of me. This has only ever happened to me with women in their 20s.