What makes someone weird?

sobrage · 2020-08-03T13:18:55+00:00

Not understanding social dynamics, as simple as that.

When a person doesn't understand what things are not socially acceptable or considered weird he will be the weird guy without a doubt.

red__Man · 2020-08-03T13:07:06+00:00

Once you're hot enough you'll never be weird unless you do some extremely autistic shit like a fortnite dance in public and even that won't probably make you look weird.

For the average dude, avoid frequent lame jokes, unnatural laughter, exaggerated grim, ...

ColdBeing · 2020-08-03T13:54:01+00:00

Don't be way too open about yourself, goofy or say edgy things. You want to be chill and masculine.

Doesn't have to be conversation either.

For example, the other week, I was at this small house party. Introduced myself to the host, attractive girl. Went for a hand shake and she said "I'm a hugger" and she hugged me. Fast forward to the night, this kid had to be like 20. Kept trying to show off, said he could skate and do this, etc.

Kid just wasn't hitting the mark for one. Two, he was skating really close to the host's Mustang. The girl was getting pissed with him so the kid goes up and says everything is good and gives her a fist bump. The kid walks back down and she says "you have 2 more tries" and the kid goes back up to her and says "it'll be fine, I'll hug you, it'll be fine" and goes for a hug with his arms out and the girl is sitting there with her arms crossed

Don't be like that guy

Sergelano · 2020-08-03T13:08:11+00:00

Don’t be unattractive

Protocol_Apollo · 2020-08-03T14:12:16+00:00

It boils down to being unrelatable.

If they can’t relate to you/say something they can’t relate to, then you/that thing you said becomes weird

javascript_dev · 2020-08-03T16:08:40+00:00

Hard to talk to and build rapport with

Isn't fun to banter with because the person gets nervous or is easily offended, usually due to low social confidence and/or being scared of losing value
Isn't able to self amuse
Has a hard time starting conversations
Continues talking to people who show deep disinterest (not low/moderate)
Sometimes everything is done right but the crowd characteristics just don't align. Ex. the guy is a mid value mid eastern dude, the crowd are a bunch of korean businesspeople (men/women)

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-08-03T13:15:59+00:00

To girls? Low SMV. For guys? Those who dont share their ideas, values, interests, etc.

HoopersHoop · 2020-08-03T14:23:41+00:00

Not having social awareness tbh. Or being unattractive which sucks

redhawkes · 2020-08-03T17:34:26+00:00

Stuck in their head aka overthinking and not taking the lead. Also, socially uncalibrated aspies.

felix044900 · 2020-08-03T16:26:22+00:00

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Title	What makes someone weird?
Author	Axorasi
Upvotes	4
Comments	20
Date	August 3, 2020 12:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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