What qualifies as losing frame?

Ahoymaboy · 2017-10-09T03:06:10+00:00

It means being reactive instead of being proactive. You're living inside someone else's vision of the world instead of your own. Hence why, the "I don't give a fuck" attitude works so well. Manipulate or be manipulated, as simply put.

saltyCounselor · 2017-10-09T03:43:42+00:00

Imagine this scenario - John has to attend the party tonight. He sets his mindset to have fun, no matter what. But as soon as John arrives to the party someone accidentally spills a drink on his t-shirt and now he has to walk with a giant ugly stain on it.

Weak frame - John gets enraged. He spends the rest of the night thinking how much of a fool he looks with that huge stain on his shirt. That's a weak frame right there, it got shattered by a simple drink.

Strong frame - John laughs it off and proceeds to have fun. Girls even question him about this huge stain on his shirt and every time he comes up with a witty comeback "It's because I never do my laundry" and continues to have fun although things did not went as he planned.

It's staying true to your beliefs, mindset, goals. It's confidence.

BigMattyMcDaddy · 2017-10-09T04:10:11+00:00

The other answers provide you with a good view of frame, but I want to clarify your conversation driving point. Letting a girl drive a conversation is a good thing. It shows she is interested in talking to you, let's her blab hints of things for you to ask and it's less work that you need to do.

quernika · 2017-10-09T02:40:41+00:00

What do you mean by frame?

Title	What qualifies as losing frame?
Author	boolNation
Upvotes	19
Comments	20
Date	October 9, 2017 2:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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