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When a plate cancels plans or ghosts, what do you do?

loveydovey2121
November 15, 2016
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Title When a plate cancels plans or ghosts, what do you do?
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loveydovey2121
Upvotes 8
Comments 17
Date November 15, 2016 3:37 PM UTC
(9 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/askTRP
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Comments

[–]fnordsnord 16 points16 points16 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

If she cancels, respond with "k" and spend the time doing something cool and interesting.

Do not contact her until she reached out, then game as usual.

If she ghosts or flakes, zero contact and game other women.

[–]SexySmexxy1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Only respond if it warrants it.

I.e

"hope your grandmother feels better soon"

, "Hope your mother recovers fast"

"Get well soon"

Nothing open ended, no questions. No asking when to reschedule and no fucking "Ks".

Either it's a genuine but short, compassionate, positive response or its literally nothing.

No, questions and no rescheduling unless she does it.

[–]JizzWall0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sound advice.

[–]GuestsGetGreens6 points7 points8 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

If you're truly in abundance mentality you won't care at all.

[–]loveydovey2121 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

You don't try to dread or amplify at all? She was supposed to come over tonight and just said she needs a rain check.

[–]GuestsGetGreens1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Nah I don't. Funny thing is they try to come around again later.

[–]loveydovey2121 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Okay so she canceled today and two days ago she was begging me to fuck her. She said she needed to take raincheck and I didn't respond. A half an hour later she txt saying "I'm sorry :(" I feel like saying k or even okay sounds butthurt but I'm not sure.

[–]GuestsGetGreens2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"K" works or go with a "no worries! Some other time" both display abundance mentality. Remember, your free time is valuable, so if you ever feel she is purposely wasting your time, ditch her ass.

[–]verify_account5 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

I like "another time"

it's non-butthurt and sounds like you're not phased by it.

[–]FrameWalker2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I go spend time with another plate.

[–]omega_dawg930 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this. plates serve one purpose

[–]2cingle1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Plate, or not, I say "Fine." That's it; no additional euphemisms or explanation.

The word has an accepted double meaning, it can be OK or it's not OK, but in my life it's not OK. It's so overused that my sense is that it's the word that takes the least amount of effort to come up with for a reply/acknowledgment, and I mean it that way. I move on.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disrespect = next.

[–]Yashugan001 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You don't care. It's not even worth a reply. Your self worth is derived from within yourself, and you don't need her validation. Continue doing you.

[–]loveydovey2121 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Smashin dames and gainin gains.

[–]TheRedStoic0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Move to the next plate.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Treat it as a shit test, nothing phases you, you'll see her when you see her.

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