I suspect my current LTR is an Alpha widow. At least emotionally.

She has a low n count and is a rather plain looking girl. I'm dating down.

She was living with her 2 year ex boyfriend when he cheated on her. She walked in on it. She moves out and goes into a spiral of depression, gets fat blah blah blah. She mentioned that the last time she remembers really crying about something was because of this. I too have noticed that she doesn't really cry, watery eyes but not full blown crying. Btw my SMV is equal to or greater than her previous bf.

I also recall in the beginning she told me that she had never had an orgasm before. That something was wrong with her body. Always too dry and had to use lube. This isn't the case with me and unless she's lying about it, i'm the best sex she's had.

Recently while hanging out she told me that her ex had reached out to her on facebook. I said "oh yeh, no big deal but thanks for telling me".

Now I know for sure that the emotional low that he brought on her is the strongest in her memory at the moment. She may also be lying about the sex but i can't know for sure. In any case, I'm aware that I have to create a greater emotional coaster than he did. Whilst she's given me no reason to doubt as of yet and does everything i ask, I'm just gauging whats the best way of bonding her given the circumstances.

I know some of you may say there's no point or it's too much effort. I mainly want to use this as practise and see what I am capable of. After all, if Prime Brad Pitt walked into her life and created new experiences with her, I know he'd completely break any past bonds whilst creating his own.