I'm in my first LTR (1 yr 8 months now) and I've been tired of it the last few months. She gained weight and I've noticed her controlling behavior more. Ive had no problem calling her out and setting boundaries when needed to but I've been wanting to just end it already. The problem is whenever the conversation starts I always end out deciding I'm better off with her. Its like when I finally have the chance to end it, my head tells me to stay, but when I take her back, I remember how I'd actually be better off without her. I've noticed a lot of guys have this problem too. Its like we're used to the comfort or something?