Would you move in together?

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-06-16T12:56:12+00:00

1 pros : none

2 cons : too many

i-am-the-prize · 2021-06-16T14:32:49+00:00

I say fuck it. go for it. All of the responses saying no are correct, if you wanted an easier longer term thing with her, and if you wanted to play the safest route.

but honestly, you're such a late bloomer and with pedestalization thought like "out of my league" i think you need baptism by fire. see if you can handle it. see if you can keep abundance mindset and cultivate some dread, RP on hard mode. See if your study and actualization of the sidebar can turn the tide. See if Frame and Game can be built in real time.

i mean, she's with you for some reason - can't be mystery anymore as cohabitation is on the table, is it you money? your sweet sweet lovin'? Is it you have more Frame than your post conveys?

If you haven't , don't admit the 'first girlfriend thing' if you already have, it's likely the novelty, that she's been burned by fuckbois and sees you as a refreshing change. so it won't last anyways, so enjoy the ride.

ReeeeDrumpf · 2021-06-16T17:23:42+00:00

Never move in with a woman unless you are married or engaged. Trust me.

CoyoteMiyamoto · 2021-06-16T12:52:17+00:00

No. Anyone who responds differently to this post is wrong.

Chad_MasterCock · 2021-06-16T14:06:10+00:00

Nope, she will get too comfortable, starting disrespecting you, loses attraction, branch swings.

You don't live together after 5 months, that's retarded. Maybe after 4-5 years when you plan on starting a family, even then...

Hans-Cheezburger · 2021-06-16T16:44:40+00:00

I moved in with my LTR when I started moving out too. She pressed me about it, saying i wasnt serious with her and like a beta cuck (i was), i agreed.

After swallowing the red pill she's not my LTR anymore. There are just too many cons about it and the other guys have all explained it to you.

If you want to look for someone to share rent with, better find a friend. It never works with women

TheDrunkSkeleton · 2021-06-16T20:01:51+00:00

I've done it twice and I think I'm done with it. First off it ruins attraction, and second I like my independence and space. First time it was with a girl with tons of red flags and it was my first go at it so I said fuck it and of course it didn't work out. Second time it was a solid bitch who had tons of green flags and we had a great relationship for a year beforehand, still went to shit rather quickly. Most women like to play house but really have no stake in working hard at anything let alone a relationship. It's far better to have your own place through the course of the relationships in all categories - financial, mental health, and relationship tingles.

endeavox · 2021-06-16T13:30:11+00:00

It's fun for a couple of months cuz you can have sex whenever you want you don't need to use your hand anymore if you're horny.

But the answer is NO don't do it. She will remove all your freedom. you can't bring other ladies, you can't go out without telling her where you'll go, you can't dread her, she will feel bored and branch swing to other guy who's mysterious and there's more thousand reason not to move together if she's not your wife.

Title	Would you move in together?
Author	Lounly
Upvotes	0
Comments	29
Date	June 16, 2021 12:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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Comments

1 pros : none

2 cons : too many