Wow, TRP is beyond true....

creating_my_life · 2017-04-12T05:09:16+00:00

well, the good news is you still have time to call off the wedding.

My only question is, do I have to be alpha forever around this chick?

Yes. If you want sex. If you just want to be her maid and handyman, then no.

How do I deal with these shit tests for the rest of my life without going insane?

That's two questions. :)

How do you guys do it?

There's no other option.

she WENT APESHIT. Screaming at me, saying put it away, what is wrong with me,

And now you have a glimpse of married life. Still want to go through with it?

GOINGFULLBALLISTIC · 2017-04-12T05:01:30+00:00

I called her about 17 times

DonaldBaelish · 2017-04-12T04:30:23+00:00

Man's greatest power is his ability to walk away. You are scared of divorce. Think about this for a minute.

I recommend you keep reading the sidebar and head over to MRP.

GreenPiller · 2017-04-12T06:48:19+00:00

2017 Getting married You dun goofed

Pitchfork51 · 2017-04-12T05:17:15+00:00

Is she gonna take your name? I already know the answer.

BinaryResult · 2017-04-12T13:42:00+00:00

Marriage is a trap, you are making a mistake, that's all I'm going to say about it. Also, any woman who would freak out at you being sexually aroused deserves a hard next, have some self respect and find someone who craves you.

BestSC86 · 2017-04-12T13:41:38+00:00

I like the self delusion....

Op thinks he fucked her brains out but then let it out just how much of a beta pussy he is by revealing that he called this damn girl 17 times and then got all hissy about her not answering.

The chance that she leaves is entirely dependent on whether she meets up with an truly alpha dude who does indeed fuck her brains out..she meets a real alpha, you are toast, she doesn't meet any alphas, then you spend the next 20 years has her handbag holder.

What kind of social retard calls a girl 17 times on the way home and then gets butthurt that she was asleep or didn't answer?

Occams_Stubble · 2017-04-12T14:53:17+00:00

Girlfriend of 10 years, since we were teens You cannot possibly objectively judge whether she is the right woman for you to marry. There are not only red flags, there are "screaming" red flags that indicate you should not.

The real problem here is you, not her. The fact you seem to be willing to put up with that screaming nonsense suggests that no matter how bad a marriage with her gets you will not be able to make the decision to walk away. You will be miserable for decades. I say this speaking from personal experience.

--____notfunny____-- · 2017-04-12T07:51:57+00:00

You don't have to act/be alpha all the way, just in the right situations (maintaining frame, you "take care" of shit, etc) and can act/be beta in others (emotional support when its justified eg. she lost a parent) check out ==> "LTR Red Pill game in 8 parts" in the r/asktrp sidebar

JJCXV · 2017-04-12T12:58:15+00:00

Your future wife shouldn't be ignoring your phonecalls and calling you needy.

IronMonk48 · 2017-04-12T15:27:22+00:00

If you marry her, she will divorce you. Don't marry this woman op. Geez man go date arpund, you really don't even know if this one is a good fit for you. You settled for 10 years because you subconsciously thought this was the best you could get.

You have such a scarcity mindset. Get some abundance dude.

Ryanskillz · 2017-04-12T18:12:24+00:00

17 times? That's not beta that's psycho as fuck.

1NV0K3R · 2017-04-12T16:47:59+00:00

Ah yes, the Power Bimbo.

These chicks you can go two ways:

ATOMIC DREAD - essentially, you just act like the biggest fucking douche possible to her, but to other women you just be yourself, flirt, act nice etc.

OR

ICE MAN - This is probably the quickest way to see how fucking insane she is but, literally, give her the smallest amount of fucking contact you possibly can. She will either a) do her very fucking hardest to appease you or b) go bat shit insane.

I think you know what to do depending on the outcome.

Cunt_Robber · 2017-04-12T10:28:38+00:00

The fighting, the screaming, the drama... It sounds like you didn't set proper boundaries for these sorts of episodes and now you're seeing the results. I would call off the marriage to this one until I was more RP and worked on my mindset/frame and leadership role management/experience. This is your future, and you're already getting a taste for it. Can you take this for another decade, if she doesn't divorce you by then?

Walk away from this one, gradually pull out and uninvest. Withdraw emotions and stop arguing with her. You can't win. She's got you by the balls. It'll be good for you, like hitting the refresh button. Then you can focus on creating a better version of you. Think of it as an investment in your future.

narcissovish · 2017-04-12T12:53:39+00:00

I won't lie to you I won't write you 100 page of rp theory. my only advice to you is to keep learnin RP rules and amplyin them in your daily life. day after day until those rules become your reality so you will never need to think about them. only when you become a natural RP then you will handle your girl the right way withoute even thinkin about it

bacheloritis · 2017-04-12T14:24:23+00:00

There's a married Rep Pill subreddit. That'd be more useful for this situation. Even more useful would be your father if he's in your life and/or the men in your father's family or even your mother's family who have lead successful marriages. Even though there's so many differences between generations, sex&relationships dynamics has been around since ...human life. I'd rather bring those deeper questions and feelings to my family and relatives whom I can trust over an online forum, but that's just me.

TheRedStoic · 2017-04-13T00:53:42+00:00

Do not get married.

I got engaged, same thing happened, and even when I had epic level dread. (Girls calling me all the time, open flirting, swole, money, questionable missing hours, etc).

She still treated me better than half my plates, but you could see the quality drop within a week. What you should take from this is that women adjust to standards set by surrounding frames. Even if you're ballin and risky, they just reset to that basis, so any sign of weakness is taken advantage of. (Most often). The more insurance you give, the more risks they'll take. Period.

So no. I've never been married. I suggest you think very carefully before proceeding.

WightMail · 2017-04-13T07:34:08+00:00

Calling her 14 times was pathetic and she knows it (Ive been there man). Youve proven yourself a beta to her over the course of a decade. She will not change her mind unless you make huge life changes (get ripped, dread game). You want her to feel like you are out of her league and could replace her at a moment's notice.

Tiway22 · 2017-04-13T07:50:16+00:00

OP you havent even lived. This girl is your life. You need to be free!

I really think you should break up with her. You can do much better. You only get one life - don't spend it with a woman who doesn't respect you, or suck your dick daily.

Because there are other women out there who are hotter, nicer, will respect you, and will want to suck your dick dry every day. You don't even know because you've been with the same girl your whole life.

Time to man up, grow up, drop this girl, and really live for the first time.

Good luck. Let me know if you have any other questions.

Edit: just saw your post history. Get yourself clean, and get to the gym. Being a fat lazy slob addicted to opiates isn't doing you any favors. If you really want to change your life and be happy, you need to start exercising, eating healthy, staying sober, and dumping the girl.

Title	Wow, TRP is beyond true....
Author	GiantEsophagus
Upvotes	19
Comments	39
Date	April 12, 2017 4:24 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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