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I failed every shit test possible and told that I love her

July 13, 2021

I am fucking dumb, seriously.

We almost didn't talk to each other for a year. She posted a story on her Instagram and I replied and jokingly invited her to my house knowing that she probably wouldn't come.

She agreed to come.

We drank alcohol and foreplayed a lot. And me being dumb and being under the influence of alcohol I told her that I love her dozens of time and failed a lot of shit test.

I have no idea what am I going to do.

Is there any way that I can recover from this situation?

Thanks in advance.

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Title I failed every shit test possible and told that I love her
Author ornitooo
Upvotes 15
Comments 6
Date July 13, 2021 10:53 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit /r/newTRP
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/newTRP/i-failed-every-shit-test-possible-and-told-that-i.1095048
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/newTRP/comments/ojd4ll/i_failed_every_shit_test_possible_and_told_that_i/
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[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 17 points18 points  (3 children) | Copy Link

First of all, don't drink. Second, it's not lost yet. You can't correct this by explaining yourself. Every attempt will make you look pathetic. Don't initiate contact for a while. At least for a week.

If she hasn't messaged you by then, you invite her to join you to grab something to eat. This is a test to see if she's worth your energy any further. If she doesn't reply or seems indecisive, you never talk to her again.

Seriously bro, never tell a woman you love her if she's not going to be the mother of your children. Even then you should use it sparingly.

[–]ajajaj99 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Goated response

[–]ornitooo[S] 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the answer. I couldn't stop feeling bad and blaming myself for this all day. I learned a thing or two at least.

If you guys have any other tips, I would like to hear them too.

[–]CoyoteMiyamoto 4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's your first problem. Some trivial bullshit like that bothers you so much that you've been thinking about it all day. Distance yourself from these kinda thought patterns. You've said what you've said. It was stupid and dorky, but that's it. You did nothing bad per se.

There's no other advice. She's not special. Either she wants some action or she doesn't. If she doesn't, you move on.

[–]SebastianValdes 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

following up on the “if she’s worth your energy or not” if she is not then go on with your life and hit up the next women you find attractive. fucking up is going to happen, learn from it bro.

[–]Meloxian 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Agree and amplify; give her a wedding ring

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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