• Don’t wait for women to give you signs cuz then you will never meet any of them.

  • Be humble to recognise that you don’t do everything right with women, and be willing to learn from those who know more than you and be willing to be proven wrong gracefully.

  • Stop blaming your failures on external things, and be humble to seek help to know what you are doing wrong.

  • Stop treating women as if they are malicious or evil beings who enjoy humiliating men or have unreasonable reactions, and seek to understand them by showing empathy and putting yourself in her shoes.

  • Don’t go for numbers in your approaches, instead seek to create solid connections.

  • Flirt sexually in a smooth way to avoid the friend-zone or platonic vibe, and know that flirting is not the same as complimenting them.

  • Avoid logical topics of conversations or talking about facts and instead focus on describing feelings and sensations to connect with women.

  • Don’t argue with women, don’t try to be right or be defensive and don’t try to solve their problems, instead listen to them, seek to validate how they feel rather than dismiss their feelings, and show them that you understand exactly why they feel the way they do or where they are coming from. Men who understand women don’t argue with them.

  • Understand that sex is not a physical act for them, but an emotional one, and that as such the emotions attached to the sexual activity matter more to their pleasure than the physical poses or techniques you try to perform.

  • Don’t try to rush to lock her down into a commitment if she didn’t ask you for your commitment even if you are afraid she might meet other guys if she isn’t committed.

I’m a coach, so if you need help with women, with cold approaching, or if you need clarification with any of these points, you can book a free call here where I will expand on it with specifics during the call.