I’m looking to shake things up socially and romantically. I’ve always jumped from one relationship to another without really figuring out casual dating or how to just meet people and have fun. I want to change that — not just for sex, but to become more open, social, and in control of this part of my life.

So this summer I’m planning a solo trip, mainly to practice daygame and break out of my comfort zone. I’ve held myself back from doing this for years, and it’s eating at me. I feel like now’s the time to actually go for it.

Long term, I live in a rural area (nearest “city” is 10k people), but I’m planning to move to a bigger city (~300k) where I can live more freely. I’m visiting soon to warm up and do some approaches ahead of the trip.

My questions are:

  • Has anyone used travel and daygame to reinvent themselves or break old patterns?
  • Any advice for making a trip like this count — mindset-wise or practically?
  • I'm doing this completely on my own, which city should I go for? Open to any continent, but live in Europe.

Would love to hear any stories or tips.