3rd date going bowling and dinner any tips

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truthbomb999 · 2022-08-20T10:12:52+00:00

3rd date going bowling and dinner any tips

If you haven't had sex, she's just using you for entertainment

When we first met it was a handshake but now we are hugging.

That's awful. Handshake is what you do at work, not for love.

I'm hoping to progress to more physical touch.

Dude go physically touch some barbells at the gym, drop this chick and quit wasting your time.

Any tips on how to escalate and get more touchy

Find another girl. You are in the friend zone

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-08-20T13:49:13+00:00

Text and say "hey change of plans tonight. Feeling a bit tired so let's watch a movie at my place. I will get the take out you bring a bottle of wine. My address is .....".

If she declines you know you never had a chance. If she shows up, she's ready to get down.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-20T09:37:13+00:00

She is not sure if it’s just friends or dating with you because you don’t act like a guy who is sexually attracted and turned on by her, you treat her the same way you would treat your sister: A hug, a handshake,…

The problem is you are playing it safe and friendly, you don’t take any risk, you don’t act sexual with her, the way you treat her is appropriate enough to treat your sister in the same way and that’s the problem. The way you treat a girl you are on a date with, shouldn’t be the same way you would treat your sister.

Going_to_hell123 · 2022-08-20T09:36:03+00:00

Generally speaking, by the 3rd date you should've tried to kiss her. If you don't soon, you will get friendzoned. A good way to start is to link arms when you walk with her, that's a good one because it can be either friendly or romantic. When you say hug her but keep holding her waist as she pulls away so she's still in front of you, then go for the kiss

anicknameyo · 2022-08-20T13:01:32+00:00

See if there's physical attraction. Communicate that openly and tell her that it would absolutely help you to know if there's physical attraction. People have their own pace when it comes to such things, so try figuring it out if the first thing is there: attraction

texaspete3 · 2022-08-20T14:26:57+00:00

women say things like that all the time. the key is to not even acknowledge it. What woman wouldn't want you, a smart successful handsome stud. Of course she wants you but she is a woman and can't come out directly and say it so you have to be the one to lead the way.

3 dates in one week. go into this date knowing by the end of the night the two of you will at least makeout. All you have to do is present an opportunity for it to happen. Btw , bowling is like a good first date, 3rd date next time should be you making her dinner at your place.

Plenty_Software4415 · 2022-08-20T15:35:29+00:00

You need to polarize her. Be your true self and express yourself how you want to. And touch her if you want to (appropriately obviously)… it will polarize he towards you or away. But either way you have your answer

zapadz · 2022-08-20T20:45:44+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjpgbomald8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fzKZeaCa9lc

Hollister38 · 2022-08-20T23:54:31+00:00

How did the date go?

Title	3rd date going bowling and dinner any tips
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Date	August 20, 2022 9:16 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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