a cry for help.

StingAsFeyd · 2011-02-28T09:27:28+00:00

Hit the gym. Take a couple hobbies. Get the eff back out there and for gods sakes man, realize that all heartbreak is bad, that's why they call it heartbreak and not heartfizzle. Seriously, the more you move on, the easier it gets. Time heals all wounds my friend.

Karma_Be_Damned · 2011-02-28T11:37:00+00:00

I've decided that I'm going to try to post a FR tomorrow

I think he's going to be just fine, Mates. Welcome to seddit Bro, stick with us.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-28T10:11:08+00:00

This is what seddit is for. That's how I got started, I was crushed by a failed relationship and decided I had to reform my life. And pickup is primarily a self-improvement system, we are just using something that highly motivates us (sex) to push us forward. That is our reward.

So start like I did, read the sidebar and some of the introductory posts with basic instructional materials. Seddit is like the footnotes to pickup instructional manuals, you can't get the whole deal by just reading seddit. Interacting in seddit kind of assumes you have some basic knowledge of those materials.

chumpta · 2011-02-28T10:30:10+00:00

she hopes I won't even remember her someday

i hope you don't remember her either. she seems kind of mean.

get on the path - youve read the books, you know what to do. You're here now so you can start moving and see where it goes. It's going to suck at first. but if you keep at it i can at least promise you that you will forget about HER.

ps defriending her from FB was definitely a good move. and arent there like a bunch of hot hippie music chicks in austin?

crownboat · 2011-02-28T15:49:29+00:00

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philosarapter · 2011-02-28T16:04:01+00:00

First: detach yourself from her opinion of you. Its time to re-establish your independence. Cut communication from her completely, remember that all things that come out of her mouth are done to make her feel superior over you and "win" the breakup. You need to define yourself by how you see yourself. And define yourself positively, and you will feel positive. Your strategy for success is to evolve into a man 1000x greater than anything you were before. Use that pain to motivate and empower you.

Then get yourself involved in as many things as you can. Go on an all out self-improvement binge. Improve your diet, your exercise, your hygiene, your talents/skills, your reputation, your career. If you want to meet girls, save up some money and sign your ass up for Yoga. Be sociable with everyone there [and make sure you smell good].

You've faced many challenges before in you life, look back on them and remember that at the time they seemed overwhelming... but you survived, you got over it, you met the obstacle and overcame it. This too is another one of those moments that seem daunting, but you'll get over this too and in the future you'll look back and laugh at how far you've come.

subheight640 · 2011-02-28T20:18:48+00:00

Yo chubbs if you ever want to go sarging I hang around Austin. We'll have a fucking blast.

HW_Plainview · 2011-02-28T19:51:45+00:00

If you're not into the whole gym thing, I downloaded P90X and it has done absolute wonders for me. I can't even explain it in words, but every day is a much better day. Try it out.

Also, go on Austin's subreddit. I live in Toronto and they have reddit meetups all the time! Seriously, all the time. You will meet people.

Good luck.

ohyesdontstop · 2011-02-28T14:12:45+00:00

Just torrent this

You're the man for posting. We'll coach you through it for sure.

Title	a cry for help.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	February 28, 2011 9:23 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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