A hopeless flirt

ls737100 · 2018-06-23T13:11:36+00:00

Dude, stop thinking of yourself as pathetic. You're just learning. It took me until like 22 to have sex, 5 years later I could get that same girl to 15 orgasms. A lot happened in between of course, but being late to the game doesn't mean you won't be in the major leagues.

vasectomymike · 2018-06-23T08:02:49+00:00

Doesn’t sound like you have any issues at all mate. You probably just need to be a little bolder and ask a girl. You’ll be surprised, they like guys that are funny sober and are in good shape ;)

ClosetLink · 2018-06-23T07:27:56+00:00

Have you ever asked a girl if she'd like to go on a date with you? If your answer is no, then that's your problem.

chalinaa456 · 2018-06-23T09:41:31+00:00

One of your problems is that you try to make the girl your friend before making her "something more". When girls put that friend tag on you, it's pretty damn hard to remove it. Its easier for men

judahman8 · 2018-06-24T08:58:28+00:00

Ill give you some basics that might help. You shouldn't have to put yourself in a position where you have to put yourself out on a limb.

Eye contact is crucial. Show sexual interest but cover your ass by immediately showing disinterest. "Wow your really hot, too bad you aren't my type" would be an example. Just Google push pull techniques. This is bread and butter stuff.

Ask girls to meet up with you casually to do something that it seems like you were going to do anyways. "Hey I was going to meet up with a friend at so and so but he bailed on me, wanna meet up?" This is a date without it being framed like a typical date. You can't get blown out like this. If they say no then its not even a rejection. You can ask them as many times as you want and it's fine.

Ill ask girls to go to the grocery store with me then invite them back to help me make dinner while we are at the store. I'll tell them Im just at a park nearby taking a walk by myself and I want some company. Do whatever but make it casual. You can't be afraid to esculate. Get touchy feely with girls and get more and more physical with them.

When she shows you enough ioi's then go for the kiss. Once I notice 3 ioi's I go forbthis kiss. Usually within 15 minutes of meeting a girl during night game. And as soon as we are alone if we are just hanging out.

Use the classic kiss close to cover your ass. Look into her eyes and say "Do you want to kiss me right now?" If she say maybe then say lets find out. If she says no then say I didn't say you could you just had that look in you eyes. If she says not here then go somewhere more private and go for it.

Is your problem meeting girls or what?

Yaboifuckboi · 2018-06-23T07:10:20+00:00

I was kinda in your boat. Just said fuck it one night and pounded a few shots of tequila and became a total savage and it worked lol. If you’re trying for a relationship then obviously no you gotta find someone you actually like in all aspects but one night stands are easier done than said I found out

Riversfomo · 2018-06-23T17:43:08+00:00

Literally the same as you. Turned 20 this month and didn’t have any of my firsts. Not even a relationship. But guess what? It’s because of me. I’ve had attractive women come on to me before but I’ve never put myself out there because I’m scared of rejection. Once you get past this initial barrier, it becomes much easier because you’re not scared of it anymore. Eventually, you’ll get so good at playing off the rejection that women will start second guessing their decision. Take the plunge my friend. As someone else on this sub said, rejection is better than regret.

temerity18 · 2018-06-23T20:34:55+00:00

When you are with a woman do you ever feel like running your hand through her hair? Play with her hand? Tickle her tummy? Do it. Do what you want. They absolutely love to be touched. It's what separates a friend from a lover. Then allow yourself to get more sexual when in private. Remove clothes and bang. You will make her day. And yours

enrique_mika5 · 2018-06-23T21:16:58+00:00

maybe you are showing too much intent and give away your power and the mystery https://youtu.be/A1Mwr1pDusQ watch it

kyzen142 · 2018-06-24T17:27:22+00:00

I would say it is because there is no tension in your interactions and thats why u end up falling into the friend category. Dare to speak your mind and dare to say risky shit and most importantly own it.

Title	A hopeless flirt
Author	BigZx83
Upvotes	12
Comments	12
Date	June 23, 2018 6:09 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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