There may be other methods to build attraction, but this is my personal favorite for so many years. It’s simple to understand yet tough to master. This is for those that ask the question “How do I even build attraction from scratch?” This is push/pull.

I like to use the cat string analogy. Where when you show a cat a string, then drop it in front of them what happens? They play with it a little, sniff it for a bit, then walk away. They get bored. Well what about if after you show them the string you quickly whip it out of sight and put it behind your back? The cat will search around for it, not see it, and move on to something more interesting. Knowing how to keep the string just out of reach of the cat at all times is the key to attraction. The key to push/pull.

I see pure attraction as a magnetic personality. Nothing to do with looks. It’s all about the emotions people experience while in your presence. (And with all the mystery and tension, can be downright uncomfortable.) Do you make them feel good about themselves? Do you make them feel they need to seek your approval? Make them reach out for more? It’s important to identify how you make people feel about themselves and to always leave them better off after you leave them.

Push/pull is a display of interest or disinterest using your words, actions, or combination of both. It’s that simple.

Examples:

Word/Word: “I like you, but I can tell you’re too much trouble.”

Word/Action: “We really shouldn’t be doing this” \while pulling her in closer to you**

Word/Action: “I’d love to talk to you more about this” \then walk away or hang up and “forget” about her**

Action/Action: Opportunities to use all body language to show interest/disinterest. Dancing, bowling, pool, amusement parks, etc.

Remember the famous mantra “actions speak louder than words.” Clever lines can be helpful, but action will always be more potent. Using push/pull in combination with my other post “Change her mood, not her Mind” can be a potent recipe for passion that she will thank you later for.

https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vgixcb/change\_her\_mood\_not\_her\_mind/