Tall, dark and handsome seems to be the fitting description of what women see as attractive. It can vary obviously, but I believe there is a limit on height for men.. and I have hit that spot.

I am a 6'11 man, and I am not saying that its such a bad thing, but there is one aspect that has been bugging me for quite some time. It's obviously women. I feel less attractive, and more intimidating when it comes to meeting women, and dating in general. I am a guy that has a lot of friends and is well known (for obvious reasons), and even though these friends tell me it is nothing to worry about because they don't seem to notice it. However this comes from a perspective of someone who has known me for awhile, and when it comes to meeting new people i find myself to be a novelty, more than someone to be compatable with.

I know this is making me out to seem like a very insecure guy and yeah I would agree that it does, but I'm stuck with this body and I take care of it; I don't smoke, I rarely drink, and workout 5 times a week. I'm in great shape and its something I've worked really hard at because I had trouble, and still do, with my weight as in being skinny. So I'm comfortable to an extent and I'm very outgoing guy who has a great sense of humour about life.

There is some back story as to why I feel insecure with women, and it starts with being friend zoned a lot, but that's not an issue anymore. There is one girl who is my best friend, and there were feelings between the both of us but it never came to fruition, and her feelings kind of disappeared. It hurt but after awhile we became close and unfortunately the feelings are still there so this is me trying to break out of that bubble. It's a weird concept because I couldn't have a better friend, but at the same time I can't help the feelings.

Enough of me rambling on, I just think lately that my height is hindering me because of my mindset and I've tried everything to change that but it's something that gets pointed out daily and people keep saying things like "must be hard to date girls" and I really want to prove them wrong... but I can't.

So I want some advice from the seduction community to maybe get myself in motion because I want nothing more than a change of scenery. I used to feel confident but I slowly see it changing, so I look to you guys to give me help on how to make use of my height in a more positive manner when it comes to women.

You're guys' opinion means a lot, Thanks.