Able to close kiss but not take her home

Key-Proud · 2026-07-12T16:04:20+00:00

Either be discreet when doing intimate stuff in public.

- Like take her to the dark corner.

or don't kiss her at all ... and just do a lot of almost kiss.

Up to the guy to make sure the girl doesn't feel like a slut and be judged by society ....

- If you do she will get buyers remorse (which is what she is feeling in your case) ... or even can get worst if she gets buyers remorse after the lay.

Also helps if you get her to sexual chase you instead of you sexually chasing her. But that is a different topic :p .... The first part of making sure she doesn't feel like a slut by the public and her friends is more important.

Seduction ...

Independent-Bad218 · 2026-07-12T15:59:08+00:00

A kiss by itself means nothing. Aside of sex all other “signals” and milestones can be hit or miss and heavily reliant on culture.

Given this, I would probably rely less on kissing and limit it only to a quick one for acknowledgment of interest. Then focus on the bounceback to home.

This one might help.

Klutzy-Painting885 · 2026-07-12T17:12:16+00:00

Uber

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-12T15:57:26+00:00

Do you get rejected when you try to get her home? Or do you not invite her home at all?

it_aint_that_deep- · 2026-07-12T20:34:54+00:00

Don’t be volatile with the process try to convince her in small steps tell her about the great shop nearby that sells milkshakes and act all surprised when she tells you she hasn’t tried it yet and from here you have a great excuse to leave the bar and once you guys are done from the milkshake shop just tell her if she wants to hang out in your place

Of course this is not limited to a milkshake shop

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-07-13T16:00:20+00:00

me and my friend used to always hav ethis problem. What helped improve the odds was how we changed our post-club/bar approach.

Before it was very direct like "coem to my place". But you have to realize something. Women get shamed for ONS, and sex in general. So they dont want to feel like you are treting them like some one night ho. So instead we presented an idea and made it clear that it was their choice. We were having fun and we presented an idea to continue the fun and it's their choice to leave whenver.

So if ive already kissed a girl and people are already going home, i approach the girl ive kissed, put my hand on her hip and kiss her. Then i say "so what's the plan for the rest of the night". If she's down she might say "idk, what wer eyo uthinking". THen i present an idea like "i have a bottle of wine im trying to test out at my place, we can play some games and drink some wine". Now in her head she thinks "well i am having fun and i do like you. We dont have to fuck i can leave whenever". Now it's important to read body language here. I get you feel so close but dont allow that to make you amke a mistake. If she seems hesitant like "im scared what youd say if i say no" or if she wants to leave, dont convince her just let her go and get her number. If she gets to your pklace, drinks one cup of wine and goes home, let her go home. Hell, buy her uber. Sometimes it's better to play the long game and she will most likely want to keep you around a bit.

Proiblem is, a lot of guys want to get the results anyway possible and that's where mistakes happen. Even if you dont fuck that night, if she keeps you around now you have a girl on your roster.

MysticTemptress76 · 2026-07-14T14:54:51+00:00

The girls arent feeling the BDE from you.

Title	Able to close kiss but not take her home
Author	RealisticAd4103
Upvotes	3
Comments	18
Date	July 12, 2026 3:53 PM UTC (1 week ago)
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