I've made a small mindset change in recent weeks and it's led to/ coincided with a big upturn in my results. I've made sure I take nothing personally, never take anyone’s actions as a personal attack on me. However much it may seem like it. It seems straightforward but I caught myself doing it subconsciously and made sure to correct it every time. It gives me abundance mentality and has relaxed my mind.

I’m having some issues which goes against this mindset and I’d like to hear what you guys have to say. If a girl flakes, doesn’t respond like I expect, leaves abruptly (i.e. actions that are verging on rude) I will usually take the above mentioned mindset and relax, not give it much thought, carry on as normal when she does respond/ turn up etc. It makes me that solid guy 'the lightbulb not the moth', having more important things to worry about than her little games.

At what point though, does it become too much? At which stage do I set a boundary to stop perhaps being perceived as a doormat? Or is there no such thing.

This sounds like a lot of overthinking but it's something that has been on my mind for a while. All input is appreciated, cheers bros.