Actual Texting Case Study: From 1st Text to 1st Date. Screenshots + Analysis of the conversations.

ithearrow · 2014-10-27T16:18:32+00:00

oh god, that was dreadful to read through. You ask way too many questions. Its so much easier to just use texting as a way of meeting someone in real life. Texting people in general is shallow, face to face conversation is just so much better.

tookie_tookie · 2014-10-27T16:20:08+00:00

What's with all the pointless hahaha's?

everyoneismyfriend · 2014-10-27T16:16:42+00:00

You are a dork

davinator401 · 2014-10-27T16:14:08+00:00

This is awful, I don't picture this kind of approach working with many women. Way too many advances and peculiar questions going on.

dyllos · 2014-10-27T16:32:16+00:00

jesus that was a lopsided conversation. And chill with the cutie pie shit.

givemesomefromage · 2014-10-27T16:49:33+00:00

If you're going to post something...don't get all butt hurt when people criticize it. As far as I can tell, everyone that even mentioned that it needs work offered some piece of advice.

Up to you if you want to agree/disagree, but there's a way to do it, and all you're doing is embarrassing yourself with your attitude.

Sorry...but your replies to them reek of sadness and immaturity. This may have worked for you with one girl, or maybe even a small handful. It does NOT make you a guru with the one and only answer.

Memitim901 · 2014-10-27T16:51:51+00:00

starting on page 2: Every single message you sent has a smiley/winky face. "What do you like to do for fun?," isn't getting to know her its a generic questions that says you don't know how to have a conversation so please say something I can work with. Her saying "What abt u?," Isn't showing interest, its again a generic come back to a generic question. Making guesses about her is cold reading, I think it works well. You respond to her question with "I'm into business, sales, marketing," That sounds boring as fuck, her questions was in response to your "what do you like to do for fun?" business, sales, marketing? Hella fun...

Page 3: "Yup, you disagree?" finally, something to have a conversation about awesome, she just ignores it though which sucks. You also had your first message without a fucking smiley face! This is a difference in style I think, but I tend to imply that I'm doing something regardless of their participation. I would ask, "I'm going to see transformers tomorrow, want me to pick you up?" Instead of "lets go watch together." Her going to go catch it with friends and not suggesting an alternative, to me, with her blow off of previous questions makes it seem like she isn't interested.

Page 4: I don't think this is a continuation of the previous conversation, I'm going to assume it didn't end well. Again, every message with a smiley face, are you 14? You offering to help her find a job for no reason is weird and seems really "nice guy-ish." She blows you off because she should it's boring. Tai tai? the fuck is that? it says what it is in the sidebar, but still, why is it in a "guide" teasing is important but maybe you are trying to market to the wrong crowd here...

Page 5: Never mind, I'm kinda done trying to dissect this.

In a nut shell, this looks like nice guy trying to flirt crap for tinder matches. Nobody here is going to buy a membership for this, we all went through the nice guy phase already, and it doesn't work. To you responding to everyone's criticism with, "hurr durr lemme see you try." Maybe I will, but I don't have anything to sell, this is a community that has helped me out and it's about helping each other out, not trying to generate traffic to your shitty get rich scheme.

brzcory · 2014-10-27T16:51:51+00:00

First: that's not a case study, that's one specific case.

Second: You could have asked her on a date in person and she would have said yes.

Third: You didn't give us the whole conversation, but that's a moot point. (I mean really, if you're saying things like "Sorry about your ex", that means you know about her previous relationships, which should be off the table until you're in an actual relationship with her. You don't want her associating you with him right off the bat. Weak.)

As far as how much texting it takes to get a date? Usually I'm sending her a time and place within the first 4 messages. You don't ask her where and when, you suggest something.

"Let's go on a date. Sweetwaters this Thursday at 4."

Short, to the point, with an actual TIME AND PLACE. There are few things more unattractive than indecisiveness. If it doesn't work for her, she'll respond with a time that does. Odds are that she can move some things around to see you.

And, to be frank, REAL LIFE interaction is what you're going for. Save the chatting for when you're sitting next to her workin' on keno. Excessive texting, which is exactly what you're doing, leads to a more boring date (Because you've already covered all the basics), and less interest from her (Because you look needy, and it seems like you don't have much going on in your life if you can just text girls all day).

Bottom line: ASK for a date, by telling them when and where. Wanna increase your response rate? That's how.

joshsway · 2014-10-27T16:52:19+00:00

this is like getting on the highway, driving 30 minutes to the airport, flying to a different country, flying back, driving back home, and then hopping on a bike to get to your neighbors house.

dyllos · 2014-10-27T16:59:15+00:00

lol btw you asked her to watch transformers. Think about that.

iTzAbot · 2014-10-27T17:35:48+00:00

This is just my opinion. OP should be a little more humble, basically you post a "guide" for text game, people critize your work, and instead of taking the advides you start to argue with them, not about how your method is better, you arguments sound as how your method is the only way to achive something, if you dont like the critics just don't answer to them.

MrRIP · 2014-10-27T16:31:36+00:00

I'm going to read it. Even tho it'll probably be a lil cringy... I commend you for actually showing. Most ppl just criticize for nothing. Ty man

Moony99 · 2014-10-27T16:25:15+00:00

Ladies please. If you have a better way of texting that get girls out. Please, by all means, put it out and show the rest.

Title	Actual Texting Case Study: From 1st Text to 1st Date. Screenshots + Analysis of the conversations.
Author	Moony99
Upvotes	0
Comments	30
Date	October 27, 2014 3:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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