So I approach women and after 10-20 minutes, I start to feel bored with the convo or more interested in the other things (typically dancing women, the new song the dj put on that I want to dance too, etc.) around me. If I'm at a club, I'd rather dance with the girl than have a conversation with her. So I introduce myself, talk for 10-20 mins, ask her to dance, find out she doesn't/can't/won't dance, I half-heartedly attempt to resume conversation, the shit goes nowhere.

If a girl won't dance with me, I pretty much immediately lose interest in her and having any kind of conversation. I would rather dance with a fugly fatty than have a 30 minute conversation with a dime.

Am I the only one with this issue? I mention my ADD because I wonder if my repulsion to long conversations, even with hot women, is related.

For those with similar minds, do you just stay there and talk or move on? Is the girl that doesn't dance when I initially ask going to dance after 30 more mins of convo? Lastly, am I abandoning a bunch of good ships just because they won't dance?