Advice on getting a quality girlfriend

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-01-01T23:25:48+00:00

You've only been single 4 months and been getting laid in this period so I don't see why you are freaking out. Work on having more to offer as a partner, meeting higher quality women outside of night game, getting better at talking to women, and working on your mental health/needy mindset.

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-01-01T21:14:46+00:00

You'll meet quality women if you are a quality man.

nordik1 · 2025-01-01T16:46:40+00:00

Finding a quality girl is a game of chance, there’s no way around it. You just have to expose yourself to as many women as possible (including thinking about where your ideal type of woman would be hanging out) and narrow it down from there

If there was a better solution, guys wouldn’t be struggling to find a quality girl

CentavoWais_123 · 2025-01-02T20:02:52+00:00

Be a quality man

KoleSekor · 2025-01-01T20:58:42+00:00

I'd say you need a better day game traffic strategy.

slumpboat · 2025-01-01T16:32:30+00:00

physical attraction can be built! so maybe give the girls you don't want more of a chance, talk to them and see if you can get along in the first place. be clear with your intentions that you aren't just there to find someone to spend the night with. that will be attractive to someone who also wants a serious relationship.

but at the same time, dont jump into the idea of "finding a girlfriend". as a girl, it is a huge turn off to talk to someone who seems like they want a girlfriend, instead of wanting ME. i want to be chosen because of my uniqueness and not because i can fill a gap in someone's emotional needs. think about what sort of things you find special in a person and when going on dates, intentionally look out for those things so you know who exactly to invest your time in, and tell them about it! they will feel special, wanted and hopefully things will progress from there.

good luck!

Distinct_Bluebird_93 · 2025-01-01T20:51:49+00:00

you need more time for a start ( time heals), and just have some casual fun with new girls..

Night game is a good strategy, but you need to be meeting more girls, if you are only getting basic numbers not going for hook ups/make outs then they will often forget you. Night game is great for hookups => easy to turn many into FWB = progress to RL if you both want.

you need 'Abundance' even if most girls are not exactly right, you are more likely to meet better girls when you are not out 'looking' too hard or being too needy. the more Abundance you have the better options you get.

I'm very curious what city you are in, 230K is a good size there should be many options. you should also try and expand your social network so you are meeting women " naturally" through friends/social activities.

Curious_Anybody_7356 · 2025-01-02T10:15:40+00:00

Paradoxical but stop caring

liftingnstuff · 2025-01-02T16:24:31+00:00

Identify the archetype of girl you like. Think about what type of activities they might participate in. Put yourself in proximity of those activities. Approach them there. If you work remote get a laptop and go to a cafe in a trendy neighbourhood

thumpsky · 2025-01-01T22:53:12+00:00

Move to an Asian country.

awsfs · 2025-01-01T21:14:20+00:00

How the fuck is it even possible to have problems with dating as a 6'3" man? Have you tried like existing and choosing one of the endless women that throws themselves at you? Maybe try that?

Title	Advice on getting a quality girlfriend
Author	Markonhs98
Upvotes	3
Comments	20
Date	January 1, 2025 3:49 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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