after 1st date?

monkeyman114 · 2016-12-18T05:34:02+00:00

She wants to see you again, don't string her along it will just piss her off. Call her up and say "hey girl, I think its time we went out again". Do it now.

mazacik · 2016-12-18T00:52:24+00:00

Do you feel like having a second date? Call her and arrange a second date. Someplace different? So be it. Thinking about sending her a cute text? Do it. Not a dickpic, though. There's no "how much" in relationships, it's all up to you, and to her, of course. If you wanted tips on where to go, what to do, what to text, that's a different story. Since this is your first to-be relationship and she's texting you a lot (that's good!), just go with it, as long as you're both having fun. There's a lot of tips/techniques when it comes to texting and dating, but for starters it's much better not to overthink it too much. Good luck!

aminl · 2016-12-18T04:14:13+00:00

That's great news! I would target 3 days or later to meet up again. I know you're excited about her and you don't want her to lose interest, but trying to meet up too soon will get rid of the attraction you have built up.

There is a concept of unavailability – women (and everyone) are attracted to things that are not completely available. Not in the manipulative sense, but in the sense that girls like guys who have things going on in their lives. For example, how meaningful is it when someone who is always incredibly busy makes time to be with you? Compared to someone who doesn't have much going on in their lives? The first feels way better.

And yes, definitely switch up the venue. You can do something a bit more intimate – a good option is making dinner at your place.

Text her a few times a day but even better is calling her in between now and the date. A good rule of thumb is to alternate – do only texting one day, text and call the next day, then only text the next day, then the next day would be the date.

Here's some advice on setting up the phone call, if you haven't done that before.

Good luck and let us know how it goes!

Title	after 1st date?
Author	starwars765
Upvotes	3
Comments	3
Date	December 18, 2016 12:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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