Any tips for a recently single and introvertive guy?

IPlayUkulele · 2013-06-17T03:10:53+00:00

Man, I used to be in the exact spot as you. Start at the beginning. Make eye contact with as many people as you can. Whenever you walk down the street, make eye contact with people and smile. Then start saying hi! Keep working at it until it's easy. Literally do this to everyone. Here are some links that help me a bit:

This.

And this.

This, too.

After those, this.

I've always thought that many people find themselves introverted just because they've never had any practice at being extroverted - that was me! But it's something you can work on develop.

Bonus link I'e been working on, if you're into this sort of thing.

very1 · 2013-06-16T08:46:48+00:00

Read the sidebar.

maybenexttimecollege · 2013-06-16T21:05:34+00:00

Research a lot but spend more time getting out to those places that interest you and get to know the staff really well while you are figuring stuff out. Practice there and go talk to girls.

ms_elroy · 2013-06-20T22:47:07+00:00

I suggest OKCupid. I was single for a long time too, and I'm also very shy and introverted. It's really hard to approach or pick people up in bars or anywhere in public really. OKCupid I had some great success however because you already know from the getgo- everyone there is looking for something, and it says exactly what they are looking for in their profile. The % system is really cool and helpful, you can find ppl with similar interests (that can help with conversation). I kept at OKC for a good year and went on about 15 ish dates, then finally met my current boyfriend. it worked! Give it a try, and good luck to you :)

Title	Any tips for a recently single and introvertive guy?
Author	haloshade
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	June 16, 2013 8:36 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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