Any tips on eye-contact?

tajbinjohn · 2015-06-18T06:56:18+00:00

Someone once told me to search for my reflection in their eyes.

Still working on it but it seems like solid advice

fortehz · 2015-06-17T23:40:25+00:00

If you're talking to someone maintain eye contact. If you glance at an attractive girl and you both make eye contact don't forget to smile. Even if you just lock eyes with some random person just smile, or if you're walking past just say "hi". Try to avoid making faces or looking sad and just keep a neutral or happy face. Most people will appreciate it by reciprocating.

NintendoPilot · 2015-06-18T08:08:38+00:00

If I'm talking to her, I switch between her eyes every so often and then on her mouth for a sec.

lofiharvest · 2015-06-18T14:25:18+00:00

I find it good practice to make strong eye contact with all persons in most social situations. I look clients in the eye. I look friends in the eye. I look women I want to date in the eye. Don't just adopt eye contact for game. Adopt it holistically into your life. I tend to hold eye contact for approx 7-10 seconds before looking away and re-establishing eye contact. Maybe sometimes longer if its a romantic situation.

PostOrganic · 2015-06-18T03:58:28+00:00

I was told if you look at the spot between the eyebrows/eyes that it gives the illusion that you are making eye contact. I'm not sure if that's bullshit or not though.

derpyderpderpp · 2015-06-18T20:56:08+00:00

Its always appropriate

Uesugi_Kenshin · 2015-06-19T00:50:59+00:00

A rule I found for myself recently is that the inner mindset of "eye contact makes you more attractive" (inner confidence) is the correct one, as opposed to "I hope I look good enough for keeping eye contact". It's appropriate almost all the time, just maybe turn your head or eyes a few times when you feel it's getting too intense.

Title	Any tips on eye-contact?
Author	chilean-dude
Upvotes	14
Comments	15
Date	June 17, 2015 11:04 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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