Simple question.

I'm not going out to bars or clubs with friends; I HATE the competitive nasty bullshit that goes on there.

I have a real life friend who can tell me all about that. His friends (better looking, higher status, whatever) take what they want, he's left with nothing. As a bonus, when at the shore house, he gets to hear his friends have sex all night while he sleeps alone by himself.

SO I have good reasons to want to avoid all the social-circle pissing contests and "group social situations" and all the status games. That reason is obvious, I can only lose and get pushed aside.

So the question is how can I meet a girl 1-1 without having "social proof" behind me?

I understand some of you would say day-game. But I am also having lots of folks tell me don't do it unless you're amazing and I'm not amazing, I'm the opposite. Some have said "since they don't know you or your friends, they won't reply to your texts" and so on.

"Man, social circle game is the way." (Read what I said above, and tell me that doesn't happen first.)