Approaching women without showing high interest

FrankyCastiglione · 2019-10-15T00:55:25+00:00

In your mind you're thinking "I want her".

Do not approach like that.

Instead, open in a casual way you would talk to a female friend you have zero interest in.

You can joke with her, tease her and have a "normal" conversation that's free if your expectations.

Only difference is you need to express sexual interest without appearing needy.

Go get 'em!

smoothmax · 2019-10-15T01:43:36+00:00

You're frame is, "You're cute, I have no idea if you're fun and interesting to be around yet."

It doesn't mean you interrogate her, it means you say something fun or do something fun such as clink glasses, see if she reacts in a fun way, back and forth. You can neg and shit test her if you want but it isn't always necessary if you can tell she's fun, interesting, and she's into you.

You show your non-neediness by being willing to walk away from her. For example going back to your friends or bringing her back to her friends.

devbev · 2019-10-15T01:36:49+00:00

Be detached.

Your vibe when talking to women should ideally give off:

The sense that you're proud of yourself

That you have a good sense of humor

That you're fun, open to new experiences. Ideally daringly so

These are the things that peak a woman's interest.

Women are more attracted to men who's feelings are unclear. Humans, especially women, are captivated by mystery. When you're mysterious, they can't get enough of you.

When someone likes another person, they give off signs.

Liking someone makes you more likely to agree with them, go along with what they say, etc. You may want to avoid these obvious tells that you're super into the other person, even if you are - just because now you know that mystery and the slow unraveling of the story is important to women.

Specific Tip - Show you're your own person - make sure you have your own opinions.

Some guys just go along with whatever a girl says, and a few will even make the fatal mistake of changing something they said earlier to go along with whatever the girl said.

jaksblaks · 2019-10-15T00:57:01+00:00

you can start with negging.

Title	Approaching women without showing high interest
Author	coleman_glass
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	October 15, 2019 12:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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