are dating the same guy facebook groups

FuturePhukBoi · 2024-12-17T10:55:33+00:00

I hate those groups with a passion. Where I live at it’s notorious and a couple of friends who are on there blasted the hell out of this one guy at our workplace for allegedly cheating. Dude was going through a divorce but they took screenshots of his texts and how he was dating multiple women lol.

Social media not only made it more difficult to date; it made it difficult to be discreet.

SithLordJediMaster · 2024-12-17T08:20:36+00:00

I get where women are coming from.

Trying to be careful of the men they date.

At the same these facebook groups have destroyed the lives of many innocent men.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-12-17T10:34:53+00:00

Why worry about it? Did you do something stupid or treat women badly? You cannot control this even if you were allowed into the group and saw your photo; what are you gonna do about it? You still can't do shit. Ghosting is very common and normal. Look at your texting game to see if it needs improvement. Try to treat everyone you date with respect and you'll maintain a good reputation

MikeJamesReal1981 · 2024-12-17T10:04:35+00:00

Facebook groups are private and often have strict vetting processes to prevent fake accounts or infiltrators. That’s likely why you're having trouble joining, even with a new female profile. These groups prioritize security and community trust, which can make access tough for outsiders.

If you’re genuinely concerned about your picture or name being shared in one of these groups, here are a few steps you can take:

Ask a Trusted Female Friend:
- If you have a close friend who’s already part of one of these groups, they could check for you. These groups often allow current members to search by name or photo.
Self-Reflection on the Ghosting:
- The chances of you going viral are slim. Stories like the one you shared are sensational partially because they're so rare.
- So focus on what you can control - how you come across in the interaction, so even if you are added to a group they have less "ammo".
Focus on Direct Feedback:
- If you’re really concerned, try asking a woman who’s ghosted you politely and respectfully if you did something that made her lose interest. Don't be cocky and funny about it, be respectful.
Build Your Confidence and Social Circle:
- The best way to counter this worry is to focus on becoming the best version of yourself. Work on your confidence, hobbies, and communication skills. If you come across as grounded and authentic, women will be less likely to focus on rumors, even if they exist.
If You Suspect False Posts:
- Should you learn that something untrue or unfair is being shared, approach it calmly. These groups generally allow women to report misinformation or remove posts that are inaccurate.

Cheers!

Title	are dating the same guy facebook groups
Author	regularguyy2
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Date	December 17, 2024 8:06 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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