Hey, are we still on for today?

Terrible text to send before a date with a girl

It show’s you’re not sure she’s meeting you and in fact you are giving her an option to cancel

Here’s what to do instead if you want to confirm

1 - assume that she’s coming. She already told you yes, so why doubt it

2 - make it funny

For example, you can just take a picture of a gym saying "getting jacked for later"

It acts as a stealth confirmation message because if she responds she’s signalling it’s still on