Asking questions that aren't boring

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-12-07T15:09:47+00:00

A great guideline in Juggler's method is to ask questions that make her commit to the conversation. Humans are a lot more interested in things they're invested in. Open questions like "Where are you from?" are fine as long as you reward her for committing (making an effort). The format Juggler recommends is: Question > Statement > Question > Statement.

For example:

You: Where are you from?

Her: I'm from Idaho.

You: Oh that's cool. I've heard they have great potatoes there. [Or relate to it somehow if you've been to Idaho]

The key is to just be genuinely interested in the conversation. Ask questions that will spark interest, questions that you can build off of. If you relate to something she says and have a story to go with it, make sure you explain it in terms of feelings, emotions, and actions that way she can really relate to it.

EDIT: Didn't know it cut off that last part.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2014-12-07T15:28:26+00:00

What else can I say to differentiate myself from other guys and create more attraction?

I'm under the impression that you're coming from the wrong frame. I'm under the impression that you're putting the girl on a pedestal. That you want to differentiate yourself because you want to impress her, not because you're owning up your own unique personality and skills and values.

What questions do you guys ask to have more interesting conversations?

Questions in themselves don't necessarily generate interesting conversation.

Try shifting your focus from "how to create attraction" to "how can I create a connection". Rather than asking questions for the sake of asking questions, ask questions that you're genuinely interested in asking. Right now, I'm getting the feeling that you're asking these questions just as a filler, rather than asking to actually have a conversation.

I'm going to assert that you're not being very real. Be real.

News_Bot · 2014-12-07T14:09:49+00:00

The questions themselves are fine. It's how you weave a full conversation around them that people mostly have trouble with. Simply asking "why?" to an answer can do wonders.

nofapfuzzy · 2014-12-07T18:30:46+00:00

Would you be interested in having sex with me on Monday at about 6 PM ?

that usually takes me very far. ..

sometimes as far as her butthole ...

Title	Asking questions that aren't boring
Author	MasterEpictetus
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	December 7, 2014 1:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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